It's the first time I'm posting cause I don't know what to do. I've been married for 10 years and we have a toddler together. After my maternity leave, I started a new job which I left after 4 months and decided to be a stay at home mum. However, my husband would constantly tell me how stupid I am, how I don't contribute financially and I eventually started looking for another job. I got an offer and I'm due to start soon.
This morning, we had a massive argument - my husband was chilling on the sofa while I was busy making breakfast and cleaning the house at the same time. When I started complaining, obviously he became very rude and said that I am a big zero and everything I have is only because of him and if he's not here, I can't do anything. I don't usually complain but I stay with my child 24/7. My child sleeps with me cause my husband doesn't like to co sleep so he sleeps in the other bedroom. My child still wakes up and I don't get much sleep but I am still expected to do everything in the house - cause I don't work.
So, he gave me the silent treatment the whole day. In the end, I asked him what does he want to do and he told me to move out, with my child and we will get a divorce. He said I'm stupid, a moron, imbecile cause I won't survive. I will get myself in debt and ruin my child's life. I can't live without support and I'm just going to fail. I just listened to everything he said, nothing positive at all. He doesn't even care if his child would have to stay somewhere else - as long as I learn my lesson.
He kept asking me why am I not leaving and I said I have to think about my child and if I'm honest, I'm scared and I don't know what to do. We kept arguing right in front of my child and then he pushed me violently and I felt like my soul came out or something.
I don't know what to do and I don't have anyone to go to either. I can't stay with him but I don't want my child to grow without a dad. I don't know what to do.