I work in the office twice a week. We have a hot desking arrangement and I am in a team of around 35 people.
Around half of the team are in their early/mid 20s. Everyone's really nice, it's just that I like getting on with my work and don't like getting distracted.
I've had a few colleagues who failed to meet their targets on whatever day because by their own admittance they were talking to others too much or getting out of their seat.
I know it sounds geeky but I pride myself on always meeting my targets, and I won a performance award recently for it.
Anyway I don't work in silence, I do politely chat to whoever's next to me but I like to get on with my work too. It's difficult as sometimes there are people who want to talk all day long.
A girl recently was complaining that she's bored sitting next to certain people because they don't talk enough. I want to put in my earphones and sometimes I do, but I worry it seems antisocial and anyway people still tap me on the arm.
It's hard to find the balance. Is it rude to tell people I'm just trying to get on? I'm happy to talk at lunchtimes.
We have a colleague who's very young and this is his first ever job. He's constantly out of his seat, talking to everyone. The very young ones tend to all hang out together which is fine, but I admit I do sometimes feel a bit on the edge.. I have 3 people there I'd say im friends with.