Hi, just came on here to rant and see what other people think. My sister is like 5 years younger than me. We have never really got on but she’s really got worse. She has been through stuff like her first boyfriend cheated on her and she really loved him and he ruined her life in other ways like self esteem etc and has been left with considerable mental health issues. I was always here for her because I have mental health problems too and we went on a night out just to have fun and she had never been out before. Anyways we met these foreign men in the pub they were sketchy as heck and i was begging her for us to go home but she wouldn’t listen I had to go home cos my phone was dead and pay for her to come back in a taxi. She blames me to this day when she just can’t handle her alcohol. I have mentioned this because she uses this as an excuse for us to not hang out or bond. She always blames me when I begged her to come home and stayed with her and those men so she didn’t end up murdered. She isn’t interested in hanging out with me to do anything and would rather spend her time slagging me off to our mother and going out with her instead. I’ve tried my hardest to get on with her but it doesn’t work long. The other day I was having a full blown panic attack in a moving car and I didn’t say a word to her I was just freaking out shaking and she was in a foul mood and nastily started taking the mick out of me and swearing at me insulting me basically calling me a stupid B word for no reason and a C word screaming at me. What?
She comes in and out my room to use the toilet but won’t say a word and slams my doors- she’s very hostile. She calls me fat, ugly all the names under the sun and always compares me to her. She says she knows I wish I looked like her and I’m jealous (I’m really not. I’m happy in my looks), she knows that I’m fatter than her.
anyways it got worse since she met her boyfriend who lives in a different country. She’s glued to her phone 24/7 and if I say a single word about him she gets extremely defensive and nasty. She needs all his passwords, locations at all times and won’t let him speak to a single woman or have female friends. I have gone on holiday to be away cos I can’t stand seeing them play mummies and daddies in my home. The reason I have made this post is something has really annoyed me tonight. I was scrolling on Facebook and her boyfriend’s sister had posted a selfie of herself. My sister had commented “stunning” and all lovely comments and it really angered me because my sister will be so lovely and kind to a stranger but will be absolutely vile to her own sister. She also starts on my brother for no reason body shaming him and calling him fat.
I can’t stand her. Am I in the wrong here for being upset? What is wrong with this person?