I found out a year ago my H was having an affair. He’s made me very unhappy with his narcissism and disrespect towards me for years, and bad tempered behaviour including towards our 16-yr-old DS, that it was the catalyst to end things. He wanted us to stay together for another couple of years under the same roof, as he made out he got carried away and said he’d nade the decision straightaway to end it with this other woman. I said to him that I expected him to not continue as long as we’re under the same roof out of respect for me and our DS. I’ve been keen to move on but had to do maintenance bits to get the house in order first, before putting it on the market end of Feb but still hasn’t sold. In the meantime, I realise my exH is carrying on with what I assume to be her, and disappears for a few days at a time “to get out of my hair”. He flits around to suit himself, whilst I’m still bogged down in the family home keeping it clean, looking after DS (we are very close and H always resentful of that), dog and other pets, without any freedom to go about as I please, He works away from home alot, so has a very nice time of things, staying in nice hotels and coming back to a nice. clean house. We are generally civil with each other, though I’m struggling. He tells so many lies, even about things he doesn’t need to lie about, and next week he has annual leave and is going to stay with married friends of his who have 2 young children, a couple of hours away. which i foubd hard to believe. And he isn’t - he’s bought first class train tickets to go to a city 1.5 hrs away from these friends, as I have discovered. He’s lying to me again. Shall I tell him I know what he’s upto and tell him he really needs to move out as this situation I find quite repulsive, even though legally I can’t force him to move out? Or should I stay quiet and observe? sorry if slow to respond but thank you everyone for advice. Divorce is going through online btw.