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Conditional marriage

29 replies

Haif7 · 12/07/2024 16:45

I criticised husband for using touch screen when driving and now he won’t drive me or the kids anywhere I told his relative as well as some health professionals that his behaviour made me anxious . He wants me to untell everyone and tell everyone I was wrong

We live
In a remote location so he knows we need to use the highway . I don’t drive on motorways

Is this controlling behaviour ?

He said he will come with us tomorrow to swimming park if I agree to go to his relatives house on Sunday . The irony is his relative isn’t even available. I asked her and she’s away. His relatives don’t cancel their kids swim lessons to come to us but when we went last time our daughter missed swimming.

That’s the only
Outing he ever suggests . We went 3 weeks ago. He knows I don’t really like going.

He never suggests any sort Of fun trip with the kids /activity it always has to be me

other day he dropped baby while baby was on his lap in sofa baby crawled off and I called 111 and husband recorded the call and recorded me and his conversations

he said I never called 111 when baby fell off toddlers bed a few weeks ago when I turned around for a second

yesterday he told DD 5 who is fussy eater “baby finished before you” and she was slightly upset I told him not to put kids against each other and he stormed off and said I’m critisinf him and he raised his voice and i
said it’s better if I don’t talk

i have spoke to some solicitors

OP posts:
Babbahabba · 14/07/2024 09:36

It sounds toxic and constant one upmanship from both of you. What a miserable way to live. I think you both sounds like a nightmare and this relationship is bringing out the very worse in you both. Definitely separate ASAP. Your poor kids being in such a stressful environment.

Edingril · 14/07/2024 09:40

So you are controlling him and am now wondering if he is controlling you?

Is this one of those weird reverse things?

Allthegoodnamesaregone1 · 14/07/2024 09:42

Haif7 · 13/07/2024 18:50

@Riapia i need to get an occupation order
are you allowed to rent out the house once he’s out if his name is also on the deeds

What grounds do you have for an occupation order?

From this post he has just as much against you.
You don't come across as fully stable and of sound mind.

Butterfly44 · 14/07/2024 10:42

What a shit marriage.

Zero happiness between either of you. Both as bad as each other. Doesn't even sound that you like each other.

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