So, really horrible week. My somewhat
estranged father died. Tried to get there in time
but missed his passing by less than 20 minutes. It was a difficult relationship but I’m hurting nonetheless.
so it’s now four days on and I’ve suddenly realised that I’ve barely had any ‘check in’s’ from those who are supposed to be my closest friends. Apart from a couple , ‘are you ok’s’ - just nothing.
one is on holiday so fair do’s until I suddenly realised she is posting all over SM - like every day but no message to me - ot even a ‘thinking of you’ or ‘sending a hug’ kind of thing: Another really good friend, also just barely anything.
im not generally needy and know and accept my friends have lives that absolutely do not revolve around me but I do feel, if I’m honest, just not that important and just not thought about.
i just know that I wouldn’t be like this if the situation weee reversed. AIBU?