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Misteeq121 · 08/07/2024 22:35

Hi all! I’m at a bit of a cross road with a work situation and hoping to get some opinions.

My employer recently sold part of its operations to quite a large corporate organisation. Some people have been told they will transfer/tupe across to said organisation and others have been told they’ll stay with the current employer. Because of the nature of what we do my team, bar our manager, were given the option of whether we want to stay or transfer. Manager has to transfer as his role has been removed from the current employers structure.

My boss is genuinely one the best I’ve ever had. I compare the flexibility and support he gives us with friends bosses/work situations and Im always thankful for how I lucked out. He always has our back and is generally a great person to work for. I was all set to transfer with him because I always said I’d happily follow him anywhere. But I’ve been offered a pay rise to stay and now I’m a little torn. It’s quite a generous pay rise and would probably take me about three years to work up to that salary.

Im in quite a privileged position in that I don’t necessarily need the extra money. A large chunk of my salary is already going into savings every month but I’m not naive. With the the way things are things could change at any moment so I wonder if I should jump on the extra cash while I have the chance. Hubby was made redundant a couple of months before we married and had to take a bit of a pay cut but we’re still very comfortable.

I should also add that asking for a raise to transfer isn’t an option as I won’t be replaced in the new organisation if I choose to stay with current employer.

My question is WWYD? Would you choose to go with the only boss who has genuinely cared about your health and well-being and work life balance? AIBU to consider taking the money knowing it could have an impact on my happy work/life balance? Would you take the extra money not knowing who your new line manager will be?

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paywalled · 08/07/2024 22:40

I would stay and take the price rise. You never know, your boss might not like the new company and leave.

I lost a good manager a few years ago. Then the next manager I got was even better!

Floating101 · 08/07/2024 22:42

Difficult one. You can’t put a price on a good boss though so I’d be tempted to go with him especially as you don’t necessarily need the extra money. Having said that - would depend how much extra it is!

MuddlingThrough1724 · 08/07/2024 22:45

Assuming the boss will be in a position to keep offering the same care and flexibility in the new organisation, I'd follow them. Without a second thought. Money can't buy you that sort of understanding and flexibility, and depending on your health/age/family set up/future family plans, is worth so much.

ThreeEggOmlette · 08/07/2024 22:48

Make the decision on the merits if the job, not the people.

Do you enjoy what you currently do? The company seems to value you?

I was persuaded to move to my current role by the person who was to be my new boss... who then pissed off 3 months later!! 😂

3luckystars · 08/07/2024 22:49

Is the transfer job the same job?

Would you still like the job if you transfer, and the manager leaves or dies?

My gut feeling is that I would go with the manager.

I had one like that previously and I still miss him, (everyone does) he was the best and I would have done anything for him. I hope I get to work with him again someday.

itsallsohard · 08/07/2024 22:53

I don't know if this helps but can I just say: you have two excellent choices here. Either might in the end not work out but both are, at the moment, very good choices and so, however it works out, you will not be making a mistake either way. IYSWIM

spirit20 · 08/07/2024 22:55

What would happen if the new environment wasn't as conducive to your boss being quite as understanding? Often how good or bad a boss is depends on the environment rather than the individual - e.g. if your boss is a nice person but is given impossible targets in the new place, then he may not be able to be as understanding as he used to be.

Misteeq121 · 08/07/2024 23:20

paywalled · 08/07/2024 22:40

I would stay and take the price rise. You never know, your boss might not like the new company and leave.

I lost a good manager a few years ago. Then the next manager I got was even better!

This is something I’m slightly nervous about. Although they’ve said there won’t be any redundancies up to the point of transfer they buying company could start making people redundant after a year or so. My boss or even I could be in the firing line if that was the case

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Misteeq121 · 08/07/2024 23:22

ThreeEggOmlette · 08/07/2024 22:48

Make the decision on the merits if the job, not the people.

Do you enjoy what you currently do? The company seems to value you?

I was persuaded to move to my current role by the person who was to be my new boss... who then pissed off 3 months later!! 😂

How rude of him/her 😅

I enjoy what I do but only because of my boss. I don’t necessarily feel any loyalty towards my current employer. The reason I’m considering staying is because of the extra money.

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Misteeq121 · 08/07/2024 23:25

spirit20 · 08/07/2024 22:55

What would happen if the new environment wasn't as conducive to your boss being quite as understanding? Often how good or bad a boss is depends on the environment rather than the individual - e.g. if your boss is a nice person but is given impossible targets in the new place, then he may not be able to be as understanding as he used to be.

Those transferring will operate as a standalone business for a period so hopefully a lot of the culture dvd working practices will stay the same. This probably won’t last forever though, likely around 18 months.

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