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I want to rescue a cat but I don’t want it bringing in viditors

72 replies

Pichee · 06/07/2024 14:00

Would love to rescue an elderly cat. But I could not handle them bringing home gifts. Is that just a no go then?

My dog is good with cats (friends with my sister’s). Wouldn’t want to deprive an outdoor cat and not many seem to be indoor.

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PixiePirate · 06/07/2024 16:05

My four cats are all fairly young (the eldest is 5) but we’ve had all kinds of things brought in through the cat flap, both dead and alive.

Live ones have included a pigeon, a partridge, a mole, about a million field mice and shrews and a DUCK!!!!

ThatsMsAtomicBob · 06/07/2024 16:06

My cat tries to hunt, but the bell around her neck gives her away. I once let her out to deal with a mouse though, and she just watched it dance around in front of her. She's all mouth and no trousers.

The only thing she catches (and eats) are spiders and flies.

Shufflebumnessie · 06/07/2024 16:15

Could you adopt an older cat that has a health condition that requires it to be kept indoors? FIV for example?

Fangisnotacoward · 06/07/2024 16:19

Could you consider a FIV positive cat? They are normal cats, but they have to be an indoor and lone cat so the FIV doesn't spread. This will prevent any "gifts".

Normally the Fiv cats are ones that have been strays and have had tough lives and have a hard time getting adopted

Circumferences · 06/07/2024 16:24

Have the cat wear a bell. Birds, mice etc hear it coming and get away.

RubySloth · 06/07/2024 16:26

spikeandbuffy · 06/07/2024 14:23

I've had two cats (both soft as butter black males) and neither have hunted
Current one spends most of his time like this demanding belly rubs

Ah gorgeous 😍

Toddlerteaplease · 06/07/2024 16:31

Get a Persian, too thick to hunt. 🤣

Toomuch44 · 06/07/2024 16:31

From my experience, elderly cats are far less likely to bring in anything. My two current ones are now seven and I've noticed that we've had far less deposits to come down to this year.

I have an old dustpan and brush just in case so I don't have to touch with gloves or look at two much.

Alaimo · 06/07/2024 16:37

I have a 13-year old, have had her since she was 7. She's never caught anything. The other day she did try to pursue a juvenile seagull, but the parent seagull came swooping down at her and she raced back inside. The seagulls are still on the lawn outside, but she doesn't dare go anywhere near them now.

ohthejoys21 · 06/07/2024 16:50

Bell on collar

voiceofastar · 06/07/2024 17:20

Martha877 · 06/07/2024 15:00

My bengal once dragged in a whole, freshly cooked roast chicken. He was very proud of himself that day.

Did you feed your family with it for a week?

Mostunexpected · 06/07/2024 17:26

Have you considered a FIV cat? They can’t go outside I think but can live perfectly happy healthy lives and there’s no need to feel guilt about keeping them inside.

cadburyegg · 06/07/2024 17:49

FIV+ cats are often in rescues for a long time - you could consider one of those, they either have to be kept indoors or have access to a catio to prevent them from mixing with other cats.

All cats are different. My 4 year old female has never brought anything in - she considers herself far too superior for all that. I sometimes find a dead mouse on the garden path because they nest under our shed and she plays with them until they die. I just think she can't be bothered to hunt! My 5 month old kitten is totally different and destroys the house trying to catch flies, so when she is let out I think she will bring a number of delights in. My mum's cat has also brought in lots of things. You can reduce the issue slightly by not allowing them out at night and at least then you won't be woken up by a distressed mouse running around your bedroom...

TerfTalking · 07/07/2024 17:58

Berga · 06/07/2024 15:16

This made me smile, because my 11 year old bruiser tom had both canines removed with a couple of other teeth and actually increased his hunting once he was recovered. It was like he was trying to prove he still has his mojo by depositing several presents on my doormat.

Oh no 🙈 thank goodness mine stopped.

Loapal · 07/07/2024 18:00

I have rescue cats who are mostly indoors but have access to a cat proofed garden. It's safer for them, it's safer for birds and other wildlife, and it's more considerate to neighbours.

I will not ever have a cat that roams.

TheSmallAssassin · 07/07/2024 18:04

Nottheeightoutoftencats · 06/07/2024 14:46

There is cat flap in development with a prey detection camera that won't open if the are carrying anything it is £££££££ but could be worth looking into.

Here you go, OnlyCat, available for pre-order 😁

www.onlycat.com/

jenecomprendspas24 · 07/07/2024 18:17

Mine are 3 (siblings) and I get at least one present a night, sometimes 4 or 5! I’m hoping they calm down with it a bit as they get older. I spend hours of my life playing a good old game of ‘locate the stench of rotting rodent corpse’. They played a blinder the other day and it literally took me a whole day to eventually find it tucked inside my leisure battery charger. The live pheasant they’d brought in which was flying around my room in the middle of the night got the old heart going, thankfully my bf was here to deal with that one. And I nearly stood on a dead mole they’d left on the stairs the other day.

I will say that you do get used to it, and I don’t ever actually physically touch the dead things, I have a special dead things dustpan and brush and they go straight from there to wheely bin. It’s the ones that they don’t actually kill that are more problematic, I have had 2 giant rats living in my kitchen at separate times thanks to the cats.

MockneyReject · 07/07/2024 18:49

The only time mine (siblings, 2y) have ever bought anything in, is when they managed to get the external door open, at dawn, and went out hunting, before I realised what was happening!
They only go out, when I'm around, and I bring them in before dusk.
Just don't let them out when little critters are most active.

JennyWI · 07/07/2024 19:10

Go for a indoor kitty. They will still hunt but it's small prey ( spiders, flies). I have one that will find bees inside corner them and yowl. It's a special sound which is great cause I'm alergic. My youngest got into the basement the other day and wll I guess we have visitors. She beheaded one.

flashspeed · 07/07/2024 19:16

PixiePirate · 06/07/2024 16:05

My four cats are all fairly young (the eldest is 5) but we’ve had all kinds of things brought in through the cat flap, both dead and alive.

Live ones have included a pigeon, a partridge, a mole, about a million field mice and shrews and a DUCK!!!!

All meant to be food for native predators, but if you let your greyhound take deer or hare you're in the paper as a yob

PixiePirate · 07/07/2024 19:34

flashspeed · 07/07/2024 19:16

All meant to be food for native predators, but if you let your greyhound take deer or hare you're in the paper as a yob

True enough. Dogs are required to be under control by law.

Short of keeping (in my case all adopted feral) farm cats indoors 24/7, I’m not sure what the answer is. I’m a vegetarian, and on balance am comfortable with my choices.

Createausername1970 · 07/07/2024 19:38

ilovecatsmorethancheese · 06/07/2024 14:45

Adopting an elderly cat is a fab thing to do. I got mine at 7 and he's 15 now.

My old man only hunts in the summer and hunts specifically for food that unsuspecting neighbours may be eating or cooking outside. I've had steak, sausages, chicken, veggies, kebabs and a very rubbery mushroom omelette (which made it all the way home, through the cat flap and upstairs in one piece) all brought home since I adopted him.

Do it, you'll never regret it.

🤣🤣

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