Been married for 9 years, have a toddler and pregnant with DC due in Sep. I have been feeling constantly upset with my H's uncaring attitude recently. He has never bought a flower, any presents or anything for this entire duration of the marriage. He never says I love you or anything nice. We were living in different cities for a few years after the marriage where we were only spending times together on weekends. We both work and have started living together mostly all the time since pandemic. Initially I made peace that this is how he is but it has been making me really upset recently since I have been sick with COVID in this pregnancy, he hasn't bothered to ask even how I was feeling and starts shouting and arguing if I end up in tears saying how I feel now about his uncaring attitude. He thinks I am acting as victim and putting the blame on him while he is the same person as he was. I end up in tears most days due to how I am feeling unloved and not cared for. I told him today that I don't see future together living this way.
I have been feeling quite emotional and anxious about future with two kids and our lives changing so much. I work 4 days and toddler is in nursery those days. There has been a lack of sleep for me and my job has been stressful. He does night waking but never gets up in the morning to look after DS even if I am sick. I don't know if I am being Unreasonable or if I am overthinking it all.