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AIBU to think my friends boyfriend is jealous of our close friendship or am I in the wrong

42 replies

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 20:47

So… I’ll try to not make this one long.

I was out at a birthday party last Saturday night with a group of friends. Most of us were either very tipsy or straight up drunk.

Towards the end of the night me and one of my good friends (who I’ve known for 5 years) were dancing then we started to really flirty dance. Proper orange is the new black style flirty dancing. Legs were intertwined, rubbing up against one another etc. we kissed but not tongues and it was on the cheek. We were really into it and both pretty drunk but we enjoyed it. It didn’t mean anything because we both have partners and wouldn’t cheat.

Her long term boyfriend is the jealous type and cracks has shown up now and again throughout their relationship. He hovers over her on nights out and is jealous over certain things. He saw us dancing and looked like he was raging.

fast forward to today. She hasn’t replied to any of my messages but has seen them. I’m a bit concerned about whether her boyfriend has gotten involved or have I overstepped the mark? She wasn’t uncomfortable or anything so I don’t know why this is happening. Any ideas

OP posts:
Idontjetwashthefucker · 05/07/2024 20:51

How pathetic, sounds like you and your friend both have some growing up to do

GiveOverAndOver · 05/07/2024 20:51

I mean you've cheated right in front of his eyes but you're wondering why he's bothered? OK.

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 20:53

Did we really cheat??

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MrsTerryPratchett · 05/07/2024 20:54

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 20:53

Did we really cheat??

Yes.

KrisAkabusi · 05/07/2024 20:54

This is the third thread about a woman dirty dancing and kissing her friend at a party while her partner watches, in two days. What's going on?

HandyDandyNotebookWanker · 05/07/2024 20:54

Are you 16/17 and think this is edgy/sexy?

How embarrassing if you're a grown adult behaving like that.

TeenLifeMum · 05/07/2024 20:55

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 20:53

Did we really cheat??

Yes, you were enjoying intimacy together right in front of him. He’s totally right to feel jealous and disrespected.

SkippysEar · 05/07/2024 20:55

Are you both girls? Im confused

MrsTerryPratchett · 05/07/2024 20:56

Pornified 'lesbianism' for the kudos.

Or you're bisexual and found it a turn on.

One's cheating, one's ridiculous and having a laugh with someone else's identity.

Lanawashington · 05/07/2024 20:56

KrisAkabusi · 05/07/2024 20:54

This is the third thread about a woman dirty dancing and kissing her friend at a party while her partner watches, in two days. What's going on?

Probably someone bored or wanting stories of women making out with their friends

GiveOverAndOver · 05/07/2024 20:56

Clearly a troll post.

SkippysEar · 05/07/2024 20:57

He wouldnt be jealous of 2 girls dancing. Different story if you were male.

ChickenDeChick · 05/07/2024 20:57

Literally a reverse of the same thread posted a few days ago Hmm

Emilyjayne9421 · 05/07/2024 20:57

Surely this isn’t real?

MrsTerryPratchett · 05/07/2024 20:57

GiveOverAndOver · 05/07/2024 20:56

Clearly a troll post.

I got a proper bollocking from MNHQ for troll-hunting on another thread. MUUUUUUUMMMMMMMM.

ShouldhavebeencalledAppollo · 05/07/2024 20:57

Ffs is this a joke?

Is beyond inappropriate. Not even just because it’s disrespectful to your partners.

I can’t believe this true. I really hope not.

FuzzyStripes · 05/07/2024 20:57

YABU.

ExtraOnions · 05/07/2024 20:59

Why fo I think this had been written by the Hairy Hands Brigade ???

SpeckledJimess · 05/07/2024 20:59

If you're over 21 then this is pretty weird behaviour.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 05/07/2024 21:00

I'm mortified for the pair of you.

Stay classy though.

thistimelastweek · 05/07/2024 21:03

Outside of fiction blokes don't tend to.like their girlfriend making out with anyone on the dance floor

Inside fiction...

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:10

We didn’t make out. There was no tongues

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AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:11

Why would she go all weird on me afterwards? It’s clearly her boyfriend

OP posts:
FuzzyStripes · 05/07/2024 21:11

AloofLexanne · 05/07/2024 21:11

Why would she go all weird on me afterwards? It’s clearly her boyfriend

Just from your posts I can think of several reasons to go all weird on you! Your behaviour is far more odd than his.

TheCultureHusks · 05/07/2024 21:12

OH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.

we care not

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