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Anyone with over 18s who haven’t voted yet - tell them to get to the polling station now!

59 replies

Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 21:16

The young are easily dismissed and dissed by political parties because they don’t vote in numbers. They will only be taken seriously if they make their voices heard.

I saw an interview with the tennis player Emma Radanacu earlier and she said she didn’t even know the election was today!

They must go and be heard! If any of my kids were over 18 at home and hadn’t gone yet, I’d go with them because I suspect some youngsters are nervous about a first vote and what to do which is why they don’t go.

Anyway 45 mins to go!

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Zanatdy · 04/07/2024 22:29

Globules · 04/07/2024 22:22

My adult children voted last week. I set them up with postal votes, like I have, as it's far easier than going to the polling station.

Both took it very seriously and read all the 9 local candidates election materials that came through the door. DD found one of the leaflets hilarious, as the candidate used the phrase "this has traumatised local residents". DD spent the rest of the day asking about our ongoing trauma.

I honestly don't know why more people don't have a postal vote.

because many (myself included) like to go to the polling station and tick that box. Not the same posting it off a week before

pizzaHeart · 04/07/2024 22:35

Soukmyfalafel · 04/07/2024 21:25

My son is 9 and went with me today. I vote at all of the elections and bring him with me so he feels confident enough to do it when he is old enough.

Parents have to talk to their kids about politics, but a lot of people aren't interested themselves, which is why their children aren't either.

Edited

I believe in this^ approach and practice it with my DD. My parents always talked about politics and importance of voting. And while I don’t share their political views at all, I have my own and always vote. However this approach is not that simple as I share the same parents with my older sister and she is not interested in politics at all and mostly doesn’t vote.

MooFroo · 04/07/2024 22:40

DH and I walked earlier to vote
he then got back and bundled DS into the car to vote as he wasn’t planning to as they’re all rubbish!

macaroniandcheeze · 04/07/2024 22:41

I hope that the young people who do vote remember whose algorithm gave better exam results to wealthy kids during lockdown. They really showed us what they thought of us then

shams05 · 04/07/2024 22:42

Peoneve · 04/07/2024 22:24

She refused to play for Great Britain at the olympics and so i wouldnt rate her sense of citizenship as high

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I don't think her refusal has anything to do about her sense of citizenship or lack thereof.
If you'd read up on her history, surgery and the short notice you wouldn't make this dig about Emma.

Globules · 04/07/2024 22:43

Zanatdy · 04/07/2024 22:29

because many (myself included) like to go to the polling station and tick that box. Not the same posting it off a week before

Sense of occasion? Really?

Job that needs doing in my book. I'll do it the easiest way possible. No time out of my day needed.

No battle getting the adult children to vote for the first time either.

Each to their own.

JamSandle · 04/07/2024 22:43

A lot of my friends and my brother haven't voted as don't know who to vote for. I voted but basically at random.

ThursdayTomorrow · 04/07/2024 22:45

My 18 year olds voted ages ago by post.

Zanatdy · 04/07/2024 22:49

Globules · 04/07/2024 22:43

Sense of occasion? Really?

Job that needs doing in my book. I'll do it the easiest way possible. No time out of my day needed.

No battle getting the adult children to vote for the first time either.

Each to their own.

Yes many people enjoy participating on the day, that’s why many don’t do a postal.

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:49

Dd aged 21 and all her friends at university haven’t voted 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m so disappointed as they’re all very “woke” and very quick to judge everyone and everything and yet none of them can be bothered to get off their arses and vote (none of them working, all between finishing their degrees and doing their masters). I think it’s so important for everyone that has the right to vote, to vote!

I’ve just been up with Ds aged 12 watching the news and trying to get him interested and excited about it all, which he is. I am hoping he will want to vote when he’s old enough.

Imnotarestaurant · 04/07/2024 22:50

Soukmyfalafel · 04/07/2024 21:25

My son is 9 and went with me today. I vote at all of the elections and bring him with me so he feels confident enough to do it when he is old enough.

Parents have to talk to their kids about politics, but a lot of people aren't interested themselves, which is why their children aren't either.

Edited

My parents spoke to me about politics, and I remember going with my dad to vote when I was 9-11ish. But I’m pretty sure I didn’t vote when I was 18-23, it just wasn’t important to me at that point of life.

HungryLittleCrocodile · 04/07/2024 22:52

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:49

Dd aged 21 and all her friends at university haven’t voted 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m so disappointed as they’re all very “woke” and very quick to judge everyone and everything and yet none of them can be bothered to get off their arses and vote (none of them working, all between finishing their degrees and doing their masters). I think it’s so important for everyone that has the right to vote, to vote!

I’ve just been up with Ds aged 12 watching the news and trying to get him interested and excited about it all, which he is. I am hoping he will want to vote when he’s old enough.

What a shame. Sad Bit like Brexit. Loads of people (who were aged 18-25 in 2016,) didn't vote, yet have whinged about the result ever since! I expect your DD and her friends are quite happy with the Labour winning result though?

NotMyDayJob · 04/07/2024 22:53

Globules · 04/07/2024 22:43

Sense of occasion? Really?

Job that needs doing in my book. I'll do it the easiest way possible. No time out of my day needed.

No battle getting the adult children to vote for the first time either.

Each to their own.

Well good for you, I enjoy going to vote in person. I don't mind going slightly out of my way. Lots of people I know feel the same.

Pigeonqueen · 04/07/2024 22:53

HungryLittleCrocodile · 04/07/2024 22:52

What a shame. Sad Bit like Brexit. Loads of people (who were aged 18-25 in 2016,) didn't vote, yet have whinged about the result ever since! I expect your DD and her friends are quite happy with the Labour winning result though?

I think so. Although she did express a desire to vote Green at one point. I think there is a real feeling of apathy amongst many younger voters, they feel that Labour were going to win it anyway so what’s the point 😳🤦🏼‍♀️ - really bad attitude really.

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2024 22:55

My kids definitely voted! They and their friends hate the Tories!
The election has also been all over social media.

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2024 22:56

Wedoourish · 04/07/2024 21:32

Our local polling station has reported a huge turnout of younger voters and less older voters !

Yay! 😁
The power of TikTok!

Lampzade · 04/07/2024 22:58

Schoolchoicesucks · 04/07/2024 21:31

There's still half an hour til polls close.

IMO anyone who doesn't vote, shouldn't be allowed to complain about anything that could have been different had a different party been in power.

This

shams05 · 04/07/2024 23:04

I like to go and vote in person and take the younger two with me. They learn about democracy even in primary, I want them to see how it's done.
My eldest does postal vote and my 18 year old came with me to vote for her first time. She didn't get a polling card as just recently turned 18 so just a letter authorising her to vote and I.d like the rest of us.

LakeTiticaca · 04/07/2024 23:11

Funnily enough I turned 18 in 1979, the year Maggie got in. I was quite excited about having my first vote in my 18th year and managed perfectly well to get myself to the polling station. Mind you back then we weren't as molly coddled by our parents and were expected to think for ourselves 🤣

MayonnaiseOnMyChips · 04/07/2024 23:13

Soukmyfalafel · 04/07/2024 21:25

My son is 9 and went with me today. I vote at all of the elections and bring him with me so he feels confident enough to do it when he is old enough.

Parents have to talk to their kids about politics, but a lot of people aren't interested themselves, which is why their children aren't either.

Edited

I do this too, my kids come with me every time

NickMarlow · 04/07/2024 23:15

MayonnaiseOnMyChips · 04/07/2024 23:13

I do this too, my kids come with me every time

Mine didn't today, but both think they should have been allowed to vote and that kids opinions matter too. At age 9 and 5 I don't actually agree (!), but I'm glad they're interested and want their voices heard.

Nursingadvice · 04/07/2024 23:17

I’m 36 and I voted for the second time in my life today. I really wasn’t going to bother, I have no preference one way or the other. It won’t make any difference to my every day life. I voted labour just for the sake of change, but have no knowledge as to what I’m really voting for. I really don’t understand why everyone ‘must vote’. Why? If I genuinely don’t care why should I bother.

Heatherbell1978 · 04/07/2024 23:24

Going to vote in person is something I like to do and plan to keep on doing unless I'm not in the country on polling day. I was surprised this year to find most of my friends did a postal vote but I like the whole 'ceremony' of it. Took my 7 and 9 yr old and they were fascinated. I really want them to exercise their right to vote when they're of age. I'd be disappointed in them if they didn't.

Lara333 · 04/07/2024 23:26

Proud of mine. Away on holiday but postal organised before they went.

They are very keen to have a say, respect that they have the right to vote and have very clear views in supporting the vulnerable and equality of opportunity.

ScarletWitchM · 04/07/2024 23:28

Why does everyone feel they have to tell others to go and vote. We are adults and know what to do