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AIBU to ask my ghoster why he ghosted me...

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Tellmeifimwrong · 04/07/2024 18:56

...because that's what I've done. Last heard from him 3 weeks ago, and before that he had invited me somewhere that I couldn't go, and before that we'd had a lovely few weeks where he was in contact all the time. I don't want to see him again, I've now got the measure of him, but I really do just want to know. So I've just messaged to ask why he disappeared. Unread so far...

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Tellmeifimwrong · 04/07/2024 20:34

Oh yeah sorry about that, I met this girl down the pub who's an absolutely cracking shag so I decided to ditch you and stick with her
I'd rather this than silence 😆

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Floatingandundecided · 04/07/2024 20:51

You're not a necromancer. Leave the dead where they belong.

SinkingFeelingSoph · 05/07/2024 10:16

Any word?
Ive left messages before saying how shit that behaviour is, just tell me you’re not interested - you won’t be in “trouble” etc, we’re grown ups etc…They’ve inevitably replied with something. But as it will be BS, it is a waste of your headspace jn the end.

Tellmeifimwrong · 06/07/2024 13:57

No word, he never even opened the message. Blocking now!

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jannier · 06/07/2024 14:20

Tellmeifimwrong · 04/07/2024 20:28

Still unread.
My last message was after declining his invitation, and said something like get in touch when you have more time. Didn't hear from him again. He definitely doesn't think I ghosted him.

That sounds like a brush off as if you were annoyed

ThisIsTheGreatestShow · 06/07/2024 14:24

Floatingandundecided · 04/07/2024 20:51

You're not a necromancer. Leave the dead where they belong.

😂😂😂

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