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AIBU to resent tory party representative standing outside polling station asking for polling number?

152 replies

ITVX · 04/07/2024 16:39

I don't think it should be allowed. I first thought she might be part of the management team for the polling station as I didn't see her badge identifying her as a member of the Tory party. I realised that it would be unlikely that they would ask your polling number outside the building. I asked why she wanted to know. She replied that it was so we didn't get phoned later. I said that I thought that voting was meant to be confidential, after which she ignored me!

OP posts:
BrioNotBiro · 04/07/2024 18:25

ITVX · 04/07/2024 17:30

Our constituency is rural where the teller was outside the polling booth.

Do you mean polling booth OP, or polling station?

They are not allowed inside the actual room (it's down to discretion the presiding officer if they are allowed e.g. in the porch etc - depends of the layout of the building).

They are definitely not allowed to be hanging around the booths.

Voterswung · 04/07/2024 18:25

I agree we had very aggressive one once we thought we had too and it was part of the process.
Today we had all three.

DonnaBanana · 04/07/2024 18:27

They only do it in seats that matter electorally. If you’ve never seen one, don’t worry it just means you’re in a constituency where your vote doesn’t really impact the big picture

PomomPomBears · 04/07/2024 18:27

It's always Lib Dems outside our polling station. Rarely see anyone from Labour or Tory. Today I just blanked them and they didn't bother me. I had my dcs with me though

Khara · 04/07/2024 18:28

Oh and my dad once knocked on someone's door to remind them to vote and she said she couldn't because her kids were in bed, so he offered to baby-sit while she went to the polling station.
She took him up on it!
Different times.

DawsonsFreak · 04/07/2024 18:29

MollyButton · 04/07/2024 18:02

There are strict rules about rosettes, I think they can be the right colour but no logo. Sometimes it part of mind games to make one party think your polling is telling you something different to theirs. And tellers often share numbers, and buy each other coffee.

From the Electoral Commission:

[Tellers may] display a coloured rosette or badge displaying the name of the candidate, party and/or emblem or description; the rosette/badge should not bear a slogan and must not be oversized

Marketplacevirgin · 04/07/2024 18:30

Mumofteenandtween · 04/07/2024 17:25

A few years ago we lived in a three way marginal so the tellers were practically having a party out there! Sharing sweets and everything. It looked rather fun.

Yes I always enjoyed it. People tended to get on well from all the parties. Swapping tales of campaigning and comparing how exhausted we were.

DawsonsFreak · 04/07/2024 18:34

Please do report any tellers behaving inappropriately. Tellers Dos and Don'ts:

www.electoralcommission.org.uk/sites/default/files/2024-03/Tellers%20dos%20and%20donts%20generic%20EA220.pdf

RichardMarxisinnocent · 04/07/2024 18:39

Sorenlorrenson · 04/07/2024 17:48

@ITVX .nope , genuine question, I would assume, if you've never seen the tellers before, that you've not voted much.

As I said earlier in the thread, I've voted lots, in every local and national election and referendum since the early 1990s and have never come across tellers.

LaughingCat · 04/07/2024 18:42

As you’re aware, now - they’re tellers. Voted in many elections now but never had one outside mine, either voting or when I’ve worked poll stations. You don’t have to tell them anything, just like you don’t have to tell doorknockers how you’re voting

BackOfTheMum5net · 04/07/2024 18:45

The tellers are all volunteers so it’s hit and miss as to where they are.

You might find in a safe seat they don’t bother, and if it’s more hotly contested this time around tellers are more common.

Goldenbear · 04/07/2024 18:50

I’ve not voted yet as just got in from work and I’ve already had Green party and Labour knocking on my door asking if I’m voting, didn’t ask about DH as he voted at 7.30 this morning.

TorroFerney · 04/07/2024 18:52

ITVX · 04/07/2024 16:39

I don't think it should be allowed. I first thought she might be part of the management team for the polling station as I didn't see her badge identifying her as a member of the Tory party. I realised that it would be unlikely that they would ask your polling number outside the building. I asked why she wanted to know. She replied that it was so we didn't get phoned later. I said that I thought that voting was meant to be confidential, after which she ignored me!

Labour were doing the same outside ours. It is generally a night of no one explaining anything and assuming you know what to do and why you are being asked for stuff, inside and outside the polling station. Took my teenager in so she won't be clueless when she is old enough to vote.

heinzseight · 04/07/2024 18:55

You might as well tell them or they might come knocking later to remind you to vote which is irritating if you've already voted.

Goldenbear · 04/07/2024 18:57

I have had both Labour and Greens knocking as it is a key seat.

Chartreux · 04/07/2024 19:14

How does asking for your voter number breach voter confidentiality? She wasn't asking how you intended to vote

LlynTegid · 04/07/2024 19:14

I would have asked her how as a woman she could be in the same party as Boris Johnson. And pointed out that the traitor should only be spared hanging because we don't thankfully have the death penalty in this country.

DarlingCoffee · 04/07/2024 19:17

We had a teller for the LDs outside our polling station today.

Conkersinautumn · 04/07/2024 19:18

Even if I'm holding it I say I don't have my poll card (for the reference number) you're not obliged to and noone has ever phoned me about my vote (30+ years, always vote in person)

pikkumyy77 · 04/07/2024 19:35

Lifeomars · 04/07/2024 17:38

I heard tell of an elderly woman who would wait for the Tories to come round and offer her a lift and then she would vote for a different party. It may be an urban myth but it amused me. There is no way they are allowed to come into the voting booth and stand over you to ensure you vote for whichever party has given you a lift.

Obviously this can happen. No reason it shouldn’t. Good government groups and senior citizen centers often organize lifts to the polls, chairs and water for the lines, for everyone who wants to vote. The groups in the US urging what is called “motor voter” which is easy automatic registration or universal vote by mail (which has massively increased engagement in the states where it has been trued) are explicitly committed to encouraging lots of people to vote, not just party members.

Ive given lifts to neighbours—I don’t ask who they are voting for.

gamerchick · 04/07/2024 19:42

Nightblindness · 04/07/2024 16:47

I'm old too. I remember going to my first election and my dad telling me not to tell the people outside anything. I didn't then and I never have. I can't say they have been there at every election I have taken part in (there was no one there today for instance) but they are a very regular sight as far as I am concerned.

I don't know if maybe they target marginal constituencies? Maybe that is why you haven't come across one.

Possibly. Labour safe seat for as long as I can remember. Although they got a bit of a rattle in the locals.

Keepingittogetherstepbystep · 04/07/2024 19:46

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 04/07/2024 16:58

Not even had a knock on the door from any of the parties. No one outside our polling station but we did have ipsos inside. You'll be pleased to know I helped sign jakes death warrant

Me too. Hopefully Jake the Fake will run off to Angelsey with his tail between his legs

Seeingadistance · 04/07/2024 19:53

mrswhiplington · 04/07/2024 16:51

Same here.

I've been voting for the best part of 40 years and I've never been asked for my voter number!

Dorisbonson · 04/07/2024 20:26

DonnaBanana · 04/07/2024 18:27

They only do it in seats that matter electorally. If you’ve never seen one, don’t worry it just means you’re in a constituency where your vote doesn’t really impact the big picture

Not true, it's down to resources. In marginals you may have fewer party activists than in very strong seats, so your ability to have tellers is less in a marginal than in a safe seat. You need enough activists on the day to have tellers and it is only useful if you have decent recent voting intention information - which can be predicted now without canvassing (knocking your door/calling and asking you).

Its quite possible some people will not see tellers at their polling station over several elections.

BackOfTheMum5net · 04/07/2024 21:57

OhmygodDont · 04/07/2024 17:34

So say my local Lib Dem is fabulous locally, they would presume I’d vote for them at a guess if I go to them with local
issues?

The teller was there this morning and I’ve still
been knocked by two parties this afternoon.

Perhaps - though the fact that two parties think you’re a possible voter makes me think you’re just really nice! 😂

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