I have been with my partner for 6 years and we own a one bedroom flat. I've been burying my head in the sand for a long time about how incompatible we are and pretending everything is OK but the truth is we are not.
He has done nothing wrong, treats me well and is kind to me but I'm no longer feeling it any more and we haven't been intimate all year. We've argued about this multiple times and nothing changes. I feel like I'm ready to move on, however I absolutely adore my home. I feel stressed by how trapped I feel and utterly depressed that I am living a lie and guilty because it is especially unfair to him.
I live far away from my family so if we broke up, I would not be able to get to work-rent prices are very high where we are and I would have nowhere to go whilst we wait for the sale to go through. As its one bedroom, we would have to still share a bed in the interim, I think this would destroy my mental health. We pay 50/50 mortgage each month but he is on a much higher salary than me. I cannot afford to buy him out as I no longer have any savings due to me being in debt. I don't think he is in a position to do so either. I could really use some advice, any is much appreciated!