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To be sick of cyclists making pedestrians feel unsafe

326 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 30/06/2024 11:50

Life is so much worse than it was ten years ago in cities precisely because of this

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ItsFuckingBoringFeedingEveryoneUntilYouDie · 30/06/2024 18:40

Ah, the weekly bash a cyclist thread.

You notice the shit ones, not the 95% plus of us who are just going about our day, following the rules of the road. Same as you notice the idiot drivers.

At different points of the week, I am in turns, a pedestrian, a cyclist and a car driver. I must be universally hated by everyone.

TooBored1 · 30/06/2024 19:11

Ocymoroniclife · 30/06/2024 18:12

As a cyclist I have had verbal abuse for using my bell! 🤷‍♀️

You just can’t win!

Exactly. Some people get cross if you call out politely. Some get cross if you use a bell. Some get cross if you don't say anything.

blackcherryconserve · 30/06/2024 19:14

TheShellBeach · 30/06/2024 11:54

I think it's exactly the same as it was ten years ago.

Cyclists have always shown entitled behaviour.

Pedestrians have been run over on crossings when cyclists go through red lights and fail to stop.

Also, there are shared pavements, where pedestrians are in great danger.

I honestly don't think it's any worse than ten years ago.

Edited

I think it's worse as cycling is much more popular and encouraged by government, local authorities and health officials. I live in southwest London and there are more cyclists than ever locally as well as cyclists in Richmond Park who think they are in the Tour de France!

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 19:19

kiwipolish · 30/06/2024 12:06

Of course there are people on bikes that are nuts and entitled but IMO we have become too accustomed to people driving cars aggressively and without thought for anyone else.

I cross a road every day and have to stand and wait at traffic lights. I guarantee that it's a very very unusual day when cars don't speed through the lights at red when they should be stopping for pedestrians.

At least cars rarely take their entire journey driving on the pavement.

TooBored1 · 30/06/2024 19:22

OptimismvsRealism · 30/06/2024 12:16

Drivers are arrested every day for road traffic offences. Made to sit in the back of the van for jumping a red. If they drove at pedestrians on a pavement there could even be an armed police response. Cyclists make it scary to be outside in a way cars don't.

I've never driven a car so I have no bias in favour of drivers.

You do know that millions of journeys are made every week by uninsured and /or banned car drivers? And that over 99% of pedestrian deaths / serious injuries on pavements are caused by drivers? Or that over 99% of pedestrians killed by someone jumping the lights are killed by a vehicle?

Bad cycling should be called out as much as bad driving but the reality is that vehicles posed the biggest danger to pedestrians, not vehicles.

Magnastorm · 30/06/2024 19:23

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 19:19

At least cars rarely take their entire journey driving on the pavement.

And yet many more pedestrians are hurt/ killed by cars on the pavement than by cyclists.

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 19:34

Magnastorm · 30/06/2024 19:23

And yet many more pedestrians are hurt/ killed by cars on the pavement than by cyclists.

Oh well that’s ok then. Two wrongs definitely make a right.

MojoMoon · 30/06/2024 19:37

OptimismvsRealism · 30/06/2024 13:38

Cyclists make me fearful every time I go out for a walk. Motorists don't.

Your feelings don't trump the actual statistics though.

Motor vehicles are far more of a risk to you as a pedestrian in terms of death and serious injury than bicycles

Humans are pretty terrible at assessing risk as you are proving here.

Magnastorm · 30/06/2024 19:59

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 19:34

Oh well that’s ok then. Two wrongs definitely make a right.

The point obviously being that if you are actually worried about safety you should direct your ire at motorists.

OptimismvsRealism · 30/06/2024 20:22

Magnastorm · 30/06/2024 19:59

The point obviously being that if you are actually worried about safety you should direct your ire at motorists.

No. The problem is arrogant and dangerous cyclists.

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DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 20:30

TheShellBeach · 30/06/2024 12:01

I also daily see cyclists running red lights

Yes. But the pro-cyclists brigade will be along soon to claim that only 1% of cyclists run red lights, when we all know that it's really 99% of them.

99%? Bollocks.

If you're going to make up statistics then so am I. How about "150% of motorists have drunk at least three bottles of wine"? It's about as likely to be true as your statement is.

It's unfair demonisation like this that is resulting in violent attacks by car occupants:
https://road.cc/content/news/cyclist-pushed-and-seriously-injured-car-passenger-309151
https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/scots-man-calls-cctv-keep-33133646
https://www.northumberlandgazette.co.uk/news/cyclist-knocked-off-his-bike-by-the-passenger-of-a-passing-car-near-ashington-prompting-police-investigation-4631872

Cyclist seriously injured by car passenger who pushed rider off bike

The victim suffered lacerations to his face, a fractured jaw, broken teeth and a concussion

https://road.cc/content/news/cyclist-pushed-and-seriously-injured-car-passenger-309151

DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 20:37

TuesdayWhistler · 30/06/2024 12:19

Not long go, Hilda Griffiths, aged 81, regents park. Cyclist hit her, faced no punishments at all, she died a couple months after being hit.

Locally to me, a car driver deliberately hit a cyclist. Recorded yelling "I'm going to fucking kill you" as he used his vehicle as a weapon. What did he get for what looks like an open-and-shut case of attempted murder? He got a smack on the wrist for "driving without due car and attention". Amazing that he even got that considering that 90% of hit-and-run drivers get clean away.

Forget about the Mumsnet trope of burying a lazy husband under the patio, if you ever want to get away with murder then just make it look like an RTA.

DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 20:56

RubySloth · 30/06/2024 14:18

Well, drivers pay road tax as well as council tax. So yes, they need to contribute to the put the infrastructure for better cycling routes.

Unless you are 104 years old, you have never paid a "road tax" hypothecated to the construction and maintenance of roads. Infrastructure is paid for from general taxation, and Vehicle Excise Duty is paid into general taxation, with those who pollute the most charged a middling sum for the privilege of filling our lungs with particulate matter.

Matronic6 · 30/06/2024 20:57

MojoMoon · 30/06/2024 19:37

Your feelings don't trump the actual statistics though.

Motor vehicles are far more of a risk to you as a pedestrian in terms of death and serious injury than bicycles

Humans are pretty terrible at assessing risk as you are proving here.

This may be true but as a pedestrian living in a city, on a day to day basis, I am more aware of and impacted by the negative behavior of cyclists.

Most days, I hear a bicycle bell dinging behind me whilst I am walking on the pavement. Or cut off whilst crossing the road. I know they don't all do it, the majority do wait. But just yesterday I saw a very close accident when a boy ran to cross for a green man and a cyclist sailed through the red light and very nearly hit him. Our main street is also full of restaurants and at certain points is riddled with deliveroo and Uber cyclists and use up a lot of pavement space.

When I am visiting home and driving, I am much more impacted by motorists.

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 21:21

Magnastorm · 30/06/2024 19:59

The point obviously being that if you are actually worried about safety you should direct your ire at motorists.

No, that isn’t a point, obvious or otherwise.

Cars killing people doesn’t mean that cyclists don’t also kill people, or make their killing any less wrong.

There are fewer people killed by cyclists than by motorists, but they aren’t less dead.

DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 21:43

Possinass · 30/06/2024 17:43

Though actually. Even if someone was deaf, being abusive as I carefully edge past because they are surprised by my existence would also make them an arse. What am I supposed to do? How many miles as I expected to travel at ambling walking pace on a canal path?

But when car drivers get annoyed because they are stuck behind cyclists going very slowly up a hill for miles they get told they just have to be patient and the cyclists have just as much right to use the road and no the cyclists don't have to pull over if they don't want to and they're fully entitled to cycle in the middle of the lane and tough luck just be patient and leave more time for your journey.

I shall pull over when I deem it safe to do so, and not before. On a 60mph single carriageway trunk road that probably will mean five minutes of held-up traffic because that's how long one needs to go along this particular road before getting to a safe refuge where I would be able to start safely again. I'd rather not have to cycle along that trunk road, but when the trains are replaced by buses I have no choice. The fact that someone might have to spend an extra four minutes in their air-conditioned weatherproof box as a result is not a priority concern of mine.

Possinass · 30/06/2024 21:47

DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 21:43

I shall pull over when I deem it safe to do so, and not before. On a 60mph single carriageway trunk road that probably will mean five minutes of held-up traffic because that's how long one needs to go along this particular road before getting to a safe refuge where I would be able to start safely again. I'd rather not have to cycle along that trunk road, but when the trains are replaced by buses I have no choice. The fact that someone might have to spend an extra four minutes in their air-conditioned weatherproof box as a result is not a priority concern of mine.

But that's exactly my point?
You say you don't care about how long the cars have to wait behind you.
But I was responding to a cyclist that asked how long they are expected to wait behind a slow pedestrian? Surely the answer is the same. As long as it takes.
Why should pedestrians potentially have to squeeze themselves out the way on narrow canal paths in order to not inconvenience a cyclist? But cyclists can inconvenience car drivers for as long as it takes?

LameBorzoi · 30/06/2024 21:49

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 21:21

No, that isn’t a point, obvious or otherwise.

Cars killing people doesn’t mean that cyclists don’t also kill people, or make their killing any less wrong.

There are fewer people killed by cyclists than by motorists, but they aren’t less dead.

The risk of being killed by a cyclist is ridiculously small. Almost zero. Not at all comparable to the risk of being killed by a motorist.

NotTerfNorCis · 30/06/2024 22:09

As a pedestrian I found cyclists a nuisance. As a new driver I find them even more of a nuisance. They just don't mix with other traffic - whether it's pedestrians on the pavement or cars on the road.

UnpackingBooksFromBoxes · 30/06/2024 22:27

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 21:21

No, that isn’t a point, obvious or otherwise.

Cars killing people doesn’t mean that cyclists don’t also kill people, or make their killing any less wrong.

There are fewer people killed by cyclists than by motorists, but they aren’t less dead.

True they aren’t any less dead but when 60% of the deaths are caused by car drivers, 39.5% other vehicles and 0.5% cyclists everyone’s ire is misdirected.

DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 22:31

Possinass · 30/06/2024 21:47

But that's exactly my point?
You say you don't care about how long the cars have to wait behind you.
But I was responding to a cyclist that asked how long they are expected to wait behind a slow pedestrian? Surely the answer is the same. As long as it takes.
Why should pedestrians potentially have to squeeze themselves out the way on narrow canal paths in order to not inconvenience a cyclist? But cyclists can inconvenience car drivers for as long as it takes?

The pedestrian (in the PP's case) had a safe opportunity to move over. Canal towpaths were designed for horses and their handlers to pass other horses and their handlers (you can still see this happening in Llangollen, they lower the rope underneath the barge). The pedestrian could have moved to the side away from the water and the PP could then have passed them at walking pace, exactly as two pedestrians walking in opposite directions would pass each other. Or for that matter a horse would have passed another horse. But the pedestrian was (due to their tech) oblivious to everything around them so continued walking down the middle.

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 22:40

UnpackingBooksFromBoxes · 30/06/2024 22:27

True they aren’t any less dead but when 60% of the deaths are caused by car drivers, 39.5% other vehicles and 0.5% cyclists everyone’s ire is misdirected.

Is it misdirected or is it inclusively directed?

Personally I’m capable of disliking both dangerous drivers and dangerous cyclists, while knowing that one is statistically more dangerous. I’m also capable of knowing it’s just as unpleasant to be injured or killed by any vehicle.

The insistence that we should ignore the issues caused by cyclists because cars cause more issues is a major part of why a lot of people think cyclists are dickheads.

As we should all be taught as children, two wrongs don’t make a right, and ‘he did it too Miss!’ isn’t an excuse.

DdraigGoch · 30/06/2024 22:49

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 22:40

Is it misdirected or is it inclusively directed?

Personally I’m capable of disliking both dangerous drivers and dangerous cyclists, while knowing that one is statistically more dangerous. I’m also capable of knowing it’s just as unpleasant to be injured or killed by any vehicle.

The insistence that we should ignore the issues caused by cyclists because cars cause more issues is a major part of why a lot of people think cyclists are dickheads.

As we should all be taught as children, two wrongs don’t make a right, and ‘he did it too Miss!’ isn’t an excuse.

No one is proposing that we ignore the issues posed by dangerous cyclists. I'd prefer to devote a proportionate amount of energy according to the danger posed. Despite the statistics, I don't see 199 threads devoted to dangerous drivers for every thread moaning about cyclists. It's as if cyclists are held to a higher standard than motorists.

Magnastorm · 30/06/2024 22:51

HildaOgdensMurielle · 30/06/2024 22:40

Is it misdirected or is it inclusively directed?

Personally I’m capable of disliking both dangerous drivers and dangerous cyclists, while knowing that one is statistically more dangerous. I’m also capable of knowing it’s just as unpleasant to be injured or killed by any vehicle.

The insistence that we should ignore the issues caused by cyclists because cars cause more issues is a major part of why a lot of people think cyclists are dickheads.

As we should all be taught as children, two wrongs don’t make a right, and ‘he did it too Miss!’ isn’t an excuse.

If you read back, you'll note that I was not excusing poor cyclists at all.

Merely pointing out that if you are concerned about being hurt on a pavement, then you are much more likely to hit by a car than a cyclist.

But we all know threads like this aren't about safety, not really. Just tedious competitive anti-cycling bullshit.

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