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To be sick of cyclists making pedestrians feel unsafe

326 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 30/06/2024 11:50

Life is so much worse than it was ten years ago in cities precisely because of this

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TempestTost · 03/07/2024 17:16

SemperIdem · 02/07/2024 23:56

Cyclists should wear helmets for the same reasons people travelling in a car should wear seat belts.

Is a seatbelt going to help much in 70mph motorway crash? Not really. But most crashes are rather more mundane so it’s actually quite useful to wear them.

Similarly, wearing a helmet as a cyclist will at least somewhat help prevent your brains being spread across tarmac in standard city cycling scenarios.

The research on this is pretty clear. When you look at whole populations, mandating helmets doesn't reduce injuries, and may actually be associated with an increase in injuries.

taxguru · 03/07/2024 17:47

HildaOgdensMurielle · 03/07/2024 12:51

People who choose to cycle have problems with a lack of infrastructure. It’s annoying when you want to cycle and it’s made awkward for you. That is one issue. Better infrastructure would be a good thing.

Too many cyclists use that as one excuse (of many) to ride dangerously. That is another issue.

Far too many cyclists use the excuse of lack of infrastructure to excuse themselves from breaking the law.

I was in Oxford yesterday. There's a wide road, no cycle lanes, but it's access only so the only vehicles using it were buses, delivery vans and emergency vehicles, so not many vehicles at all, so no need for a cycle lane. Presumably it had been made access only to protect people like cyclists!!

I was using a pelican crossing to cross over and the light changed to green for me to cross. I looked and saw some bloke in a suit and tie bombing towards me. I put my hand out to stop him ignoring the lights and hitting myself and others who were crossing. He came to a screeching half and gave a load of verbal abuse. He was completely oblivious to the red traffic lights and clearly though he had right of way. He then just bumped up onto the pavement to pass everyone who was crossing the road.

LadyChilli · 03/07/2024 18:08

Yes cars are worse. But for the most part as a pedestrian cars are only a problem at junctions. It's increasingly common to meet dangerous cyclists on every footpath, helmetted and high vizzed for their own protection but giving zero fucks about the pedestrians having to jump out of their way. When my dc was a toddler I got a mouthful of abuse when he was nearly hit by a motorised cyclist on the pavement of our local High Street, for causing him to brake. Leaving my front gate is dangerous now as I live on a hill and it's a blind exit to the pavement so you have to poke your head out to check for cyclists flying down the path at speed.

Nobody is saying cyclists don't have a shit time on the roads, they do. I gave up commuting on bike as it was a nightmare. It would never have occurred to me to do my commute by bike on the pavement. We need safe pavements for pedestrians and safe cycle lanes for bikes.

HildaOgdensMurielle · 03/07/2024 18:23

LadyChilli · 03/07/2024 18:08

Yes cars are worse. But for the most part as a pedestrian cars are only a problem at junctions. It's increasingly common to meet dangerous cyclists on every footpath, helmetted and high vizzed for their own protection but giving zero fucks about the pedestrians having to jump out of their way. When my dc was a toddler I got a mouthful of abuse when he was nearly hit by a motorised cyclist on the pavement of our local High Street, for causing him to brake. Leaving my front gate is dangerous now as I live on a hill and it's a blind exit to the pavement so you have to poke your head out to check for cyclists flying down the path at speed.

Nobody is saying cyclists don't have a shit time on the roads, they do. I gave up commuting on bike as it was a nightmare. It would never have occurred to me to do my commute by bike on the pavement. We need safe pavements for pedestrians and safe cycle lanes for bikes.

They are putting themselves in danger too because they are relying on everything in their path moving out of the way.

Depending on the width, camber and quality of the pavement/crossing I can’t get out of the way.

Yes if a cyclist hit my chair it would be dangerous to me, but it would also send them flying- they are going to hit a solid metal structure which won’t crumple or move as they hit it like a person will.

A young lad near here was killed when he miss judged a corner going at speed, hit a low wall and was catapulted onto a field. That is what I can see happening if someone hit me, or even some other obstruction they weren’t expecting… some people leave all sorts of crap on pavements.

XenoBitch · 03/07/2024 18:57

BringBackLilt · 02/07/2024 18:22

Not sure if this has been covered, but my main gripe is cyclists who ride on the road with no helmet on.

Unbelievably selfish and stupid
If they were to be struck by a car in an accident it could well be life changing injuries or brain damage at best, death at worst for that cyclist. Imagine having that on your conscience as the driver for the rest of your life. Even if it wasn't your fault, you'd never get over that.

I have to talk myself out of pulling over and telling then how selfish and stupid they are.

Maybe try to drive better and not hit anyone to start with.

UnpackingBooksFromBoxes · 03/07/2024 19:07

Movingtothecity · 03/07/2024 09:55

I was hit by a cyclist two days ago in Cabot Sq, Canary Wharf. For those who don't know, Cabot Sq is one way - he was going the wrong way and hit me as I crossed the pedestrian crossing on a green light (and yes, maybe I should have looked the other way but my light was green and traffic had stopped). He came off his bike, swore at me and rode on. Leaving passers by to call an ambulance to take me to the Royal London where they patched up my broken ankle. I'm now unable to walk the dog or lead any kind of normal life for several weeks and there is absolutely no come back on him.

Have you reported this to the police? Ultimately it’s a serious injury collision (any broken bone is classified as a serious injury) and even if you don’t think there’s a hope of finding the rider, if there’s potential for CCTV that could lead to an appeal and they may or may not be identified. Alternatively the cyclist in the cold light of day might have reported it themselves. By reporting it the collision would be recorded as occurring and add to the stats 19 figures which are used to determine road safety measures. You should be able to report it online.

Movingtothecity · 03/07/2024 19:29

UnpackingBooksFromBoxes · 03/07/2024 19:07

Have you reported this to the police? Ultimately it’s a serious injury collision (any broken bone is classified as a serious injury) and even if you don’t think there’s a hope of finding the rider, if there’s potential for CCTV that could lead to an appeal and they may or may not be identified. Alternatively the cyclist in the cold light of day might have reported it themselves. By reporting it the collision would be recorded as occurring and add to the stats 19 figures which are used to determine road safety measures. You should be able to report it online.

I haven't reported it. I was too upset but it's a good point. I will.

DdraigGoch · 03/07/2024 19:36

GasPanic · 03/07/2024 13:21

They are comparable.

You can get 100kg person riding a heavy bike with e-assist (about 20 kgs) and a 50 kg person riding a lightweight moped.

Bikes are probably more of a threat to pedestrians because of prevalence and proximity. And the fact that cyclists tend to take less care.

I'm pretty sure that if someone was hit by a cyclist at 20 mph or a moped at 20 mph they would report pretty similar experiences.

Apart from the fact that the moped rider would have mandatory insurance to pay for the consequences of their actions.

You think that all mopeds are insured?

You think that the only way to seek redress is through insurance? You know that it's possible to sue someone anyway, don't you?

GasPanic · 03/07/2024 20:04

DdraigGoch · 03/07/2024 19:36

You think that all mopeds are insured?

You think that the only way to seek redress is through insurance? You know that it's possible to sue someone anyway, don't you?

You think that all mopeds are insured?

No. Where did I say that ?

You think that the only way to seek redress is through insurance?

No. Where did I say that ?

You know that it's possible to sue someone anyway, don't you?

Yes. What happens if they don't have enough money to pay for the lifelong treatment needed for the injuries they caused ?

LameBorzoi · 03/07/2024 22:24

MikeRafone · 03/07/2024 12:38

Everyone should be considerate of other people travelling, pedestrians are at the top of the hierarcy as they are the most vulnerable. It sounds truly awful what what happened to the poster who has a broken ankle and no wonder she is angry.

How do we as a society change some people to be respectful of others whilst travelling? as this would reduce the number of deaths and life changing injuries of people using the highways

Better infrastructure.

Space for people to ride bikes safely, which will go a long way to getting them off the pavement.

Reducing / calming car traffic in city centres, which if done well should reduce car deaths.

AbraAbraCadabra · 03/07/2024 22:34

LameBorzoi · 30/06/2024 12:32

Oh lord, not this old chestnut again.

Statistically, cyclists don't kill people. Motorists do.

This. So bored of these threads. Despite what you perceive, statistics clearly show that motorists are a much bigger danger than cyclists. By a long way. Which makes sense as cars are bigger, heavier and go much faster.

LameBorzoi · 03/07/2024 22:35

TempestTost · 03/07/2024 17:10

This sounds nice, but in reality being at full alert constantly like this, where you feel you need to divide your attention too much, and the outcomes if you fail are life and death, isn't very sustainable for most people.

There's no question that in a lot of places traffic levels are too high, and there is something to be said for slowing traffic by making sure people need to pay attention, but I think the current trend to making things very complex is likely to have serious consequences.

This is a significant thing with system design - in a complex system which depends on every element working right every time, there will be failures, and they tend to be catastrophic when they happen.

The mental load is high partly just because you aren't used to it.

Better design would also help here. The Netherlands makes it work by not assuming that cars will be the dominant form of transport.

DdraigGoch · 04/07/2024 01:45

GasPanic · 03/07/2024 20:04

You think that all mopeds are insured?

No. Where did I say that ?

You think that the only way to seek redress is through insurance?

No. Where did I say that ?

You know that it's possible to sue someone anyway, don't you?

Yes. What happens if they don't have enough money to pay for the lifelong treatment needed for the injuries they caused ?

Apart from the fact that the moped rider would have mandatory insurance
You did use "would", which is pretty definite, unlike "should".

TempestTost · 04/07/2024 01:48

LameBorzoi · 03/07/2024 22:35

The mental load is high partly just because you aren't used to it.

Better design would also help here. The Netherlands makes it work by not assuming that cars will be the dominant form of transport.

I don't really think so.

I agree that the mental load of new things will go down over time, typically.

But that only works to a point. When it gets to a place where you actually need to be paying attention to too many things at once, it's not going to go down, or not much.

I think some of the changes I'm seeing over the past few years to infrastructure are creating that kind of situation. It's like the people designing them assume that they can make things more complex infinitely, and people will just adjust.

I also think that in some of them, it's actually impossible for any driver to be properly safe - they are always sacrificing one thing to another. It's not physically possible to look at more than one thing at a time.

It also ignores the fact that there will always be quite a few people who are not driving in these areas regularly, so are not experienced. You can't design roads so that anyone who isn't an experienced driver is at significant risk of making an error.

Which brings me to another trend I hate among traffic people these days - painting wonky crossings and political slogans on the road and other stupid things that are not standardized.

parkrun500club · 04/07/2024 09:59

DdraigGoch · 03/07/2024 12:40

I suggest that you refrain from taking holidays in the Netherlands then. Next to no one wears a helmet there. Your blood pressure would be through the roof. And yet the traffic death rate there is lower than Australia's, where helmets are mandatory.

Yes, I don't think Dutch heads are any harder than UK heads.

And if a driver squashes me, it isn't going to make any difference if I had a helmet on. The driver could also try to drive properly and not squash me, if that helps.

Also, why is it only cyclists who need helmets and not pedestrians?

parkrun500club · 04/07/2024 10:01

I also think that in some of them, it's actually impossible for any driver to be properly safe - they are always sacrificing one thing to another. It's not physically possible to look at more than one thing at a time

Even more so for pedestrians when they are crossing side roads and apparently drivers think they should be looking in about six directions at once.

But I do agree that it can be difficult for drivers too. One example is a roundabout at our local station where cyclists try to under and overtake drivers at the same time. I don't know how they expect drivers to see them. You can't physically look in about three directions at the same time!

parkrun500club · 04/07/2024 10:02

AbraAbraCadabra · 03/07/2024 22:34

This. So bored of these threads. Despite what you perceive, statistics clearly show that motorists are a much bigger danger than cyclists. By a long way. Which makes sense as cars are bigger, heavier and go much faster.

Yes. The constant hate for cyclists is really tedious. Cyclists are not the problem.

parkrun500club · 04/07/2024 10:04

sometimesinthefall · 03/07/2024 12:45

I'm still fuming at the very middle-class dad who let his small daughter (maybe 4yo) zoom at me bang in the middle of the pavement a few months ago, without any consideration. I did shout 'she's going way too fast' and of course he ignored me. I wish I'd been less polite now.
And also the mother and her two kids (two bikes in total) whom I walk past three days a week on the school run. I have been getting out of their way for close to two years now and she's never managed a smile or a thank you.

I once had that when a mum told me to get out of the way on the pavement because she was cycling with her small son. I said they should be on the road and she told me I was being stupid because her son was only 4. Well, yes, but I had priority. I don't have an issue with cyclists on pavements, but I do have an issue with them expecting me to get out of the way. If you use the pavement (illegally remember) you give way to pedestrians.

MikeRafone · 04/07/2024 12:59

@BringBackLilt

a cycling helmet is only made to withstand a force from 12mph or less - so a driver and cyclist crash isn't going to be any different outcome unless the driver and the cyclist are travelling at under this speed

https://www.cyclinguk.org/sites/default/files/document/2019/11/helmets-policy_4s_cuk_rv.pdf

helment ar e great idea for children learning to ride or n the event of them falling off the bike without anyone else involved.

https://www.cyclinguk.org/sites/default/files/document/2019/11/helmets-policy_4s_cuk_rv.pdf

MikeRafone · 04/07/2024 13:02

Yes. What happens if they don't have enough money to pay for the lifelong treatment needed for the injuries they caused ?

deducted out of your income, courts can have this directly paid from your wages by your employer - there is a cap on how much, but it can be done

LameBorzoi · 04/07/2024 13:28

TempestTost · 04/07/2024 01:48

I don't really think so.

I agree that the mental load of new things will go down over time, typically.

But that only works to a point. When it gets to a place where you actually need to be paying attention to too many things at once, it's not going to go down, or not much.

I think some of the changes I'm seeing over the past few years to infrastructure are creating that kind of situation. It's like the people designing them assume that they can make things more complex infinitely, and people will just adjust.

I also think that in some of them, it's actually impossible for any driver to be properly safe - they are always sacrificing one thing to another. It's not physically possible to look at more than one thing at a time.

It also ignores the fact that there will always be quite a few people who are not driving in these areas regularly, so are not experienced. You can't design roads so that anyone who isn't an experienced driver is at significant risk of making an error.

Which brings me to another trend I hate among traffic people these days - painting wonky crossings and political slogans on the road and other stupid things that are not standardized.

Yeah, I suppose the uk approach is to try and squeeze more things in without any concessions from car traffic. The difference with th e Netherlands is that they seem to be willing to slow cars a little.

MikeRafone · 04/07/2024 14:38

The difference with th e Netherlands is that they seem to be willing to slow cars a little.

in the 1970s the dutch protested to stop driver dominance and for change. The change happened and it means a very large proportion of drivers cycle. The dutch don't use driving as a way of transport for every trip, instead using bicycles. When drivers come in contact with cyclists, they treat them differently as they understand their position on the road

HildaOgdensMurielle · 04/07/2024 18:01

parkrun500club · 04/07/2024 10:02

Yes. The constant hate for cyclists is really tedious. Cyclists are not the problem.

The ones that don’t follow the rules and endanger others are a problem.

MikeRafone · 04/07/2024 18:17

The ones that don’t follow the rules and endanger others are a problem.

of course they are, but the question is how do we stop people breaking the rules and endangering others?

BringBackLilt · 04/07/2024 18:27

XenoBitch · 03/07/2024 18:57

Maybe try to drive better and not hit anyone to start with.

I have never had an accident or hit anyone in over 25 years of driving. So my driving doesn't need to be any better.

I have however, had many cyclists at traffic lights pull off in front of me and weave about in front of my car, without a helmet on. I haven't 'hit' any of them because I am a careful driver. I'm not sure why you're telling me to be more careful or drive better.

If you're happy to not wear a helmet, that's your choice. I think it's a reckless one.
You've managed to change my mind though. I'll no longer worry about other people's choices. I'll carry on driving in the safe and sensible fashion I always have.