Would this put you off?

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I went on a LOVELY date a few days ago with a man. He was courteous, sweet, we got on so well and he's asked me on a second date already. It felt very natural and like we'd known eachother for ages. I do really like him.
Anyway, I'm a bit concerned that he told me he's still living with his mum at 29. He told me he did have a roomate but they moved in with their girlfriend so now he's back at home and saving for a house. He's a tree surgeon but he works for a company, not self employed. I've got my own place and I'm younger than him.
I'm looking for a man who is financially stable and who can take care of himself so I don't have to mother him basically. Do you think this a red flag that he possibly can't or shall I give him the benefit of the doubt?
What are your thoughts? Would this put you off?

It's ok to be cautious but you dont know everything about him. He could be a secret millionaire for all you know but at this stage it's not really any of your business where he lives and why ! Just go with the flow and see what happens.

So he’s got a job and a good relationship with family to be able to move back and live with them. He is saving for his future home. All positive.
Did you save up for deposit youself or had help from parents? If you did, he might not be in the same position, not everyone is. But he has a plan and as long as he is decent and responsible i’d give him a chance. You’re both still very young. I would get to know him better if i were you.

I agree with the first 4 replies, and then many more since.

YABU, judgemental, and perhaps this sensible man might be better off with someone who was willing to be less of a critic.