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Manager put me on performance management plan and I’m leaving

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Pinksparkles84 · 24/06/2024 21:22

I’ve worked with my company for 1 and a half years now. I initially did one type of job under a head of department (team A) and was headhunted by the manager of a team which is a sub division under the original team (team AB). I have studied for many years to get to where I am and am qualified in my area of law which I was doing under team A. The work on the new team is quite niche but a lot of the job is administrative. My appraisal was positive and I was given good feedback about my files.

I decided to tell my head of department that working in the team AB isn’t for me and I’d like to go back to team A). My job in team A was filled a few months back and it was assumed that I’d be working for team AB but doing a small amount of work for team A. Most of the work in team A was delegated elsewhere so that I could focus on team ABs workload. I didn’t really have a say in the matter as I was asked when someone left team AB. The manager and a few of the team work fully remotely and training has been primarily by the managers assistant emailing what is required. I have feedback to the managers assistant that I learn better being shown how to do things rather than read a long email that doesn’t make sense. I suggested we have regular zoom meetings and screen share. This has only happened once and was a good way of learning. The managers assistant continues to send long emails about what needs to be done. bearing in mind I’ve not done their type of work before.

when I started on team AB I was given 36 cases to deal with and then started getting an influx of about 100 emails a day. In addition I was regularly going out for meetings/networking etc so that reduced my time in the office. I wanted a bit of time to look at the details of the file and make notes on what needed doing. Due to having to get on with it I didn’t have time. Managers assistant is quite highly strung and sends daily emails to say that documents haven’t been saved correctly on the system. They are fully paperless in the team and I was trying to adjust my mindset as I previously had paper files.

anyways, I called a meeting with HR and head of department and felt a bit bad that manager of team AB was out of the loop. I wanted to discuss going back to team A and doing the work I was comfortable (and qualified) to do. At the meeting, the HR lady gave me a performance improvement plan and issues were raised that I’d never heard about before under team AB. Issues such as punctuality (I drop my DS to school on a Friday and usually come in at 9:30 and work half an hour later to make up for it - this was agreed with the manager of team A sometime ago). I also work earlier than my start time several times a week to deal with the workload.

manager of team A also criticised my attention to detail (I filled in a form which had an incorrect bank account number on because there were many bank accounts and I included the details of the one I thought it was). This was the first time I did this form.

I told the HR deptartment today that I got a new job and handed my notice in. Manager of team AB is now saying that I would have probably resolved the issues brought to her attention in the PIP but that it was too late anyways as I was now leaving. AIBU to go with the new job.

OP posts:
Bcdfghjk · 24/06/2024 21:27

Huh? What's the point of this thread? You have accepted the new job and handed your notice in which you are entitled to do...

Slytherfish · 24/06/2024 21:32

Well do you want the new job?

PrincessofWells · 24/06/2024 21:36

My experience is once its gone a bit sour at a law firm, it's curtains pretty quickly. You're doing the right thing going. Good luck in your new post.

converseandjeans · 24/06/2024 21:38

It sounds like manager of Team A is picking on minor things as they don't want you back on their team. Just go with new job.

Pinksparkles84 · 24/06/2024 21:38

Bcdfghjk · 24/06/2024 21:27

Huh? What's the point of this thread? You have accepted the new job and handed your notice in which you are entitled to do...

I guess for me, I feel a bit sad that I’m leaving and that I felt like I had to move on. I should have written that I really liked the people where I worked and am feeling a bit pushed into moving on.

OP posts:
FoxSwiss · 24/06/2024 21:39

You already handed your notice in so what difference does it make?

pinkgin79 · 24/06/2024 21:56

So what do you want advice on?

Plmnki · 24/06/2024 21:59

FGS I trudged through all that waffle and get to the end to find you have a new job anyway! If that’s your comms style it’s no wonder there’s been issues in the job. Jeeze.

Pinksparkles84 · 24/06/2024 22:01

pinkgin79 · 24/06/2024 21:56

So what do you want advice on?

Just whether I should have fought the performance management plan and if anyone else has had experienced being put on one. My manager of team AB has said that it would have been sorted in a few months and I’m feeling bad that maybe I should have stayed and seen what happens.

OP posts:
Pinksparkles84 · 24/06/2024 22:02

Every where I read seemed to suggest that it was a way of pushing me out of the company. I know I shouldn’t worry about it as I have a new job offer but I tend to overthink these things! 😂

OP posts:
fiddlesticksohyeah · 24/06/2024 22:03

Plmnki · 24/06/2024 21:59

FGS I trudged through all that waffle and get to the end to find you have a new job anyway! If that’s your comms style it’s no wonder there’s been issues in the job. Jeeze.

Oh lord, that's harsh. Confused

longdistanceclaraclara · 24/06/2024 22:04

Have you contracted with the new job? I'd be very careful if
Not.

Pinksparkles84 · 24/06/2024 22:05

fiddlesticksohyeah · 24/06/2024 22:03

Oh lord, that's harsh. Confused

Maybe I should have articulated what I wanted advice on. Despite getting the new job I’m having doubts that I should have given my current firm a chance and what others experiences of being on a PIP are.

OP posts:
fiddlesticksohyeah · 24/06/2024 22:07

You need to move on. Fresh start and all that. Think boss A is being polite. It's done, move on.

Smartstuffed · 24/06/2024 22:12

My first thought was that of course the manager of team AB would say that now that you've handed in your notice and are leaving! But it doesn't sound like they actually listened, and took on board, what you told them.

Don't overthink it - just focus on your new position and don't look back. Good Luck!!

ZiriForGood · 24/06/2024 22:12

You didn't want to stay in team AB, no matter the performance plan.
If the company wasn't ready to get you back to the work you wanted to do, being able to resolve the performance plan is irrelevant.

Codlingmoths · 24/06/2024 22:12

So the feedback is re performance on team AB but came from team A and manager of team AB Is unaware? If you want to do them a favour tell manager AB that if her firm can formally raise feedback about a staff members performance in her team without informing her and HR support this demonstrates a royally fucked up management and HR. What happens to basic processes? Where the team manager is informed? Not to mention what should be a given- the team manager is fully behind any feedback that results in a pip or no pip? You should be running as fast as you can, not regretting might have beens.

Nocturna · 24/06/2024 22:14

What's the AIBU?

LlamaTwirl · 24/06/2024 22:14

I'd move on with my head held high. Way too much awkwardness now at your current firm.

Mummy2024 · 24/06/2024 22:23

Pinksparkles84 · 24/06/2024 22:02

Every where I read seemed to suggest that it was a way of pushing me out of the company. I know I shouldn’t worry about it as I have a new job offer but I tend to overthink these things! 😂

You called a meeting with HR, You organised it to get moved back to a team you felt comfortable in, their response was to threaten to sack you and accuse you of under performance OP. Sorted in a few months or not you would have still been in the team you didn't want to be in.... your manager was far from out of the loop, they would have been approached by HR and they would have been the ones reporting the so called "under performance".

Of course they are saying it could all have been sorted in a few months as they don't want the tribuneral you could possibly bring.... they could hardly say oh didn't expect it to work this fast! Either that or they didn't expect their bullying to actually make you leave.

Its a bad organisation no issues we're raised at appraisal I'd actually be seeking legal advice but as you haven't been there 2 years you can't anyway. Walk away never look back.

Purpleday1 · 24/06/2024 22:24

Good decision to move on.
They were not treating you with respect and as a valued member of staff.
Putting you on PIP in the manner in which they did would not inspire trust.
Hold your head up high and move on.
Good luck.

RawBloomers · 24/06/2024 22:25

A manager who does not ensure you get decent training on a new area then instigates a PIP after you’ve contacted HR indicating your dissatisfaction working in their team and in the PIP introduces issues they have not mentioned to you before is not going to be someone worth working for. Their assessment of how things would have gone with the PIP is not one you can trust given their lack of communication before it.

You did well to get out before things got worse. Hopefully you will keep in touch with the people you like and your new place will also be full of nice people you’ll make friends with.

Edited to say: Mummy2024 says this far better ^^

Schoolchoicesucks · 24/06/2024 22:25

You don't want to work in team AB. It's unclear (to me) whether returning to team A is an option. You've been offered a new job. Unless the terms of the new job are worse than your current role, I would say be happy to have the option to go and make a fresh start.

EvenleyWitch · 24/06/2024 22:33

Plmnki · 24/06/2024 21:59

FGS I trudged through all that waffle and get to the end to find you have a new job anyway! If that’s your comms style it’s no wonder there’s been issues in the job. Jeeze.

And yet you still felt the need to type your own waffle'y rude opinion on it, when you could have saved yourself the time and just read it and left.

OhcantthInkofaname · 24/06/2024 22:44

What I assume you are saying is that they did not adapt training to your learning style ie visual or by doing not by reading. Make sure you put that fact in your exit review. This happens so often. Companies lose employees that are a good fit simply because they don't adapt to learning styles.

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