How do you cope with your slip down a financial level? So on paper we have been a similar friendship group for 20 years but the reality is we were at the bottom and they were waaaay higher. No drama from this, same outlook etc. But new plans show things like ‘let’s save up £50/month!’ to do something is pie in the sky. The tension is just awk cos I’m the 1 of 4 that has to set a budget so much lower than they would. How do I avoid being fun police?