More exposure on this one I've found after lurking for a long time
Me (38f) and my wife 47(f) are at a crisis point in our marriage. We don't see eye to eye on anything, our trust generally has disappeared (not with regards to being unfaithful though, neither of us would ever cheat) there has been zero intimacy / affection since our child was born 2.5 years ago. I bedshare with the child and my wife sleeps in a separate room. There are issues steaming from ILs which we cannot seem to resolve. We both need to work on ourselves, and the marriage. I'm happy to try counselling, tackling one issue at a time to try to salvage things but she is too full of resentment at this moment.
What I am trying to ask is has anyone's marriage reached seemingly the very rock bottom and have you come back from there? Is there any hope, even the slightest glimmer.