Last month my cervical screening came back HPV positive, but the sample wasn't good enough to test for abnormal cells so I have to repeat the screening in 3 months time. Shocked by the result, considering all 3 previous screens I've had were HPV negative, and I haven't had any new partners for 10 years. (I used to live overseas where women are screened younger and were tested for HPV before the UK btw). Anyway I'm worried about it. DP doesnt really get it, tried to be understanding, but has also been dismissive like 'oh it will be fine, stop worrying.' From what I understand, it's quite likely they will find abnormal cells at some point and I'll need a horrible procedure to get rid of them, or I could even develop cancer.
Anyway, DP has just discovered he has a fungal foot infection - not nice but very common, easily treatable with cream. But my god you'd think the world had ended. He's really down about it, miserable and worried for days. He's expecting vast amounts of sympathy from me (which he has got) but I'm a bit upset he's not offered me much support over my issue to be honest, when it could be more serious. Aibu? How do I approach this with him?