Nc for this, though I have posted about previous situations before. I'm mainly posting for traffic as I'm desperate for some sort of advice/help with this.
For a bit of context, My grandparents are vulnerable, especially my DGM. She was recently admitted to hospital with pneumonia and as of yesterday was told by a doctor she's back OK the pathway for another admission. My uncle is a heavy drug user (crack, possibly heroin and generally anything he can get his hands on), Hes smashed DGP house up stolen money and my grandads possessions, the last incident a few weeks ago he threatened to set them on fire whilst attempting to kick the door in.
For a while my gran has been (in my view) unintentionally enabling him, she shouts at him at times the stress of a situation has resulted in her becoming violent, she refuses help but eventually gives in, she calls the police when some of these events happen, mainly after alot of persuasion from myself and my DGD but refuses to do anything ither than log it in the system even though my grandad states his wishes are the opposite. She let's him in the home when my DGD is in bed, etc and she continues to hand him money, otherwise he just steals it anyways.
This morning DGD has informed me of another event last night, stating uncle again threatened to set their house on fire while they sleep then would do the same to mine, refused to leave and was very aggressive wanting money. My DGM gave in and gave uncle £50 to get him out of the house, he refused to leave until they attempted to call the police. The call didn't actually go as far as being connected but he thankfully left.
I'm really tired of this now and I'm torn. I feel i need to help them otherwise one of them (likely my DGD) will end up dead but I don't know how. I'm 33 weeks pregnant aswell and am going to be a single parent, so my GP are literally my only support for this anyways but it's also becoming clear that they are a risk, by no fault of their own. So it's either we do something now and hope my gran sticks to it so they can see my baby or I cut contact completely and go completely alone.
What can I do? Is there even anything if my grans unlikely to cooperate? Would a adult social care referral for them do anything?