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Booze in theatres

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Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 07:52

We go to various theatres probably about half a dozen times a year to see different things, musicals, comedians, plays, audience with....etc.
Every single time over the last couple of years there has been groups or couples who are constantly shouting out from their seats, always women (usually middle aged) and always off their faces drunk. They completely spoil the show.
We've had women fighting in the foyer, or passed out drunk and/or just generally being very loud and obnoxious./aggressive
We went to see comedian last night and again the 2 women behind us were ridiculous and we had to move.
When did boozing in theatres become the norm?
For reference I'm a middle aged woman who is also a drinker but I can manage a night at the theatre without one.
AIBU to say that alcohol is becoming part of everything nowadays and nowhere is safe from drunken louts?

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MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:09

Conniebygaslight · Today 09:07
Meadowfinch · Today 08:06
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I've never experienced this. Maybe choose a different theatre.
We go to several theatres, always the same.”

What sort of shows are you going to?

CheeseWisely · 20/06/2024 09:10

To add, I think comedy is different and a couple of drinks are more acceptable. Our small local theatre sadly closed during covid but beforehand would only allow drinks into the auditorium for comedy, not for plays.

Gingerdancedbackwards · 20/06/2024 09:10

You'd expect this at a Magic Mike, but not at any other type of performance unless specifically related to show, such as a sing-along sound of music or rocky horror show

ginnybag · 20/06/2024 09:11

I would cheerfully go back to the days of only water allowed in the auditorium. We had issues with people drinking during Player King's fgs.

Don't get me started on the crisps and popcorn. And the talking, the phones, the up and down to the loo....

Drink at the interval, bit of ice cream, job done. I'm 50/50 in the last twelve months on audience behaviour ruining shows, and they’re not cheap to attend. One especial highlight was the couple who talked ALL the way through the first half of Singing in the Rain, went on a sweary rant when they were finally asked to shut up by staff, then turned out to be in someone else's seats cause they'd fancied them more, and spent the first twenty minutes of act 2 shouting about that before finally stomping off in a huff.

AthenaBasil · 20/06/2024 09:11

Drinking culture has always been an issue in the UK. If anything it’s getting slightly better with more people not drinking any alcohol at all.

I don’t know if there’s something specific about theatres going on.

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:12

bagpuss90 · 20/06/2024 08:06

Nothing wrong with a drink at the theatre - it’s part of the experience- never seen anything disrespectful really. Fights and people passed out ? ! Where the hell do you go ? I’m really curious

Many and varied over the years, up and down the country. York, Leeds, Harrogate, West End, Edinburgh.

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Pianofingers1 · 20/06/2024 09:12

It's usually people they look like they don't get out often (yes I'm making assumptions based on age and the type of show) and for a lot of people, not getting out often = getting twatted. Sad really.

But yes never had this at the NT or Old Vic etc

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:14

Gingerdancedbackwards · 20/06/2024 09:10

You'd expect this at a Magic Mike, but not at any other type of performance unless specifically related to show, such as a sing-along sound of music or rocky horror show

Honestly it's bizarre, I wouldn't go to anything like Magic Mike but if I did I would expect it.

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Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:15

CheeseWisely · 20/06/2024 09:10

To add, I think comedy is different and a couple of drinks are more acceptable. Our small local theatre sadly closed during covid but beforehand would only allow drinks into the auditorium for comedy, not for plays.

I'm not talking about a couple of drinks though...

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KimberleyClark · 20/06/2024 09:15

KrisAkabusi · 20/06/2024 07:55

YABU because alcohol has always been available at theatres, there's nothing new there. Ordering drinks to be ready at the interval is part of the experience.

I can remember when interval drinks had to be drunk during the interval and you couldn’t take them into the auditorium. That seems to have gone by the book now.

RedSuedePump · 20/06/2024 09:17

ive worked in theatres and believe me when i say fights are not as uncommon as you might think! especially in relation to certain type of shows. Audience poor behaviour is a massive issue currently for the industry.

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:18

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:09

Conniebygaslight · Today 09:07
Meadowfinch · Today 08:06
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I've never experienced this. Maybe choose a different theatre.
We go to several theatres, always the same.”

What sort of shows are you going to?

Billy Joel song book, An audience with Gary Barlow, An officer and a gentleman, blood brothers. Lots really. I'm not talking about people singing and dancing here, I'm talking about shouting and whooping when the performer is talking. Really drunk people.

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Gingerdancedbackwards · 20/06/2024 09:19

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:14

Honestly it's bizarre, I wouldn't go to anything like Magic Mike but if I did I would expect it.

Quite!

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:20

Tbh, your choice of shows explains it.

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:21

CheeseWisely · 20/06/2024 09:10

To add, I think comedy is different and a couple of drinks are more acceptable. Our small local theatre sadly closed during covid but beforehand would only allow drinks into the auditorium for comedy, not for plays.

I'm talking about women buying bottles of wine each, I'm not adverse to someone having a drink. I understand your point about the comedy but standing up and whooping every 2 mins so you can't hear is bloody annoying.

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Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:21

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:20

Tbh, your choice of shows explains it.

Why?

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Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:23

fieldsofbutterflies · 20/06/2024 07:57

Drinking at the theatre has always been a "thing".

Yes I know but getting absolutely plastered hasn't...

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MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:23

Lots of musicals: people get carried away and think it’s perfectly reasonable to be loud and raucous. Tends not to happen at straight plays.

Revelatio · 20/06/2024 09:24

I have never seen this and I go to the theatre a lot. There have always been pre-drinks and interval drinks.

Comedy shows are completely different though.

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:24

KrisAkabusi · 20/06/2024 07:55

YABU because alcohol has always been available at theatres, there's nothing new there. Ordering drinks to be ready at the interval is part of the experience.

Buying a drink or too at the theatre yes, but not getting so drunk you become an absolute nightmare and completely out of control

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leafybrew · 20/06/2024 09:25

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:20

Tbh, your choice of shows explains it.

😂😂

If only we could all be properly cultured - these things would not occur

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 20/06/2024 09:25

Never seen this.

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:25

leafybrew · 20/06/2024 09:25

😂😂

If only we could all be properly cultured - these things would not occur

Obviously not high-brow enough...🙄

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Ponoka7 · 20/06/2024 09:27

It isn't just adult shows. Last time I took my GC to a kids panto, the Dad behind us kept buying pints, then kicking them over. The whole floor was swimming in lager. I agree that the most disrupted performances gas been by middle aged women. I don't know if they are in denial about their reduced tolerance. It's one of the issues with reduced ticket prices, works night out, were the employer has paid etc. The ability to order from the seat possibly adds to this.

Conniebygaslight · 20/06/2024 09:27

MrsSkylerWhite · 20/06/2024 09:23

Lots of musicals: people get carried away and think it’s perfectly reasonable to be loud and raucous. Tends not to happen at straight plays.

But to the point of standing up and shouting when the performers are trying to speak their lines is not on really....

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