Does your DH like you?

[WeirdTrees]

I don’t think mine likes me. I don’t think anyone in the world quite dislikes me as much as he does.

I’m a person who tries to be very engaging, funny and get complimented quite often by friends/acquaintances for being a nice person.

Does anyone else have a DP who has no patience for niceness with you? Speaks to you in a way they wouldn’t speak to their friends/colleagues/people down the pub?

I’m also in this boat I don’t think DH likes me and to be honest my fondness of him is also dwindling I did put it down to young DC but as time has gone on it’s still the same. I know how you feel, I think more people are in a similar situation but won’t admit it.

This. He wrote me a card this morning 'just because', telling me how much he loves me. (We've had a difficult time recently, MIL has died, I've been unwell etc.). I'm sorry your husband is being a knobber.

That’s so sad, no one should have to feel like that. Life would be so much better without him op, please give leaving him some serious thought.
At risk of sounding smug, but really meaning to say how it could and should feel, I know my husband adores me. He thinks I’m funny and fun to be around and we’re always each other’s first choice to hang out with, given the option.

Yes he likes me and loves me and would do anything for me. And vice versa. We don’t always agree on things and we have certainly had our moments over the years but we enjoy each others company and make each other laugh. He’s not my best friend though!