Haven't worked for a couple of years as I had a breakdown, which resulted in a hospital stay.
I then had a major accident, a big operation and corrective surgery last year.
Im still trying to get well and on quite high medication.
H not been very supportive in all this and our marriage isn't great.
H does not care about decorating, his parents are very rich, have a huge house but never spend money on decorating. They really don't care and it's not important to them.
Ive tried to make our house look nice, but H gets upset if I spend too much and he really doesn't care.
So to my problem. After years of having a patio that's falling apart he agreed that we could have it updated. A lot of this is due to it actually being dangerous.
He never comes with me to pick anything out I'm just told to pick something and the price range.
His Friend is a builder and gave a good price.
Patio nearly finished and when i looked yesterday it is very clearly uneven. The builder has put the slabs over our old patio which I thought was a bit strange but thought he knew what he was doing?
Asked H if he could see it was uneven and he literally screamed at me that I find fault in everything. I'm not really picky but if a job needs doing I like it done properly.
So, I said to my husband why has it been done like that and he said it would have cost thousands to have the old one dug up and replaced? Not sure if it's true but as I said he likes to get things cheaply.
He then said " As I'm the only one working I decide how much to spend!"
Im so upset by this as I feel like I can never have anything nice in my house. For years I was so embarrassed to have anyone over but he really doesn't get it.
Sorry for the ramble