Wondering if i'm being unreasonable to be upset here. My DH is not enjoying his job and will vent to me which is completely fair enough. I started a new role 2 months ago, it was a big step up so was nervous but I am really enjoying it and finding my feet. Anyway, whenever I try to say anything positive that's happened in my job he just ignores me. I had some positive feedback and he just changed the subject and no acknowledgement of what I'd said. Yesterday, I listened to him moan for an hour and a half, and then I mentioned that things in work were going better as feel I am finding my feet. Again, changed the subject back to him and no acknowledgment. It's upsetting me as I feel he 1) doesn't care to listen to me and 2) he can't seem to be happy for me when things going well. Maybe I'm being unreasonable as he is having a hard time, but I feel he should at least be happy for me doing well or acknowledge what I've said? I have barely spoke about it bar 2/3 occasions in the last month or two so I don't think I am rubbing it in, and I listen to him every day.
Note that in my old role, I'd rant about things and get told all I do is moan and he was fed up listening to the same stuff but expects me to.