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Clothes gone crazy!

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WeirderandWeirder · 13/06/2024 00:28

Everything is as thin as a piece of tissue paper. Huge floppy proportions and saggy crotches. See through tops and tshirts and elasticated everything...

I haven't been shopping for a long time. A couple of years. I loved clothes but something has really changed. Even spending more guarantees nothing. I can't be arsed with the touted, trending eco brands either, as I have witnessed their corner cutting and cheapening over time, too. I used to have a ton of fave shops and now there isn't even one.

I have just gone back to wearing outdoor stuff. Like a man, kind of. They never seem to have to deal with this crap. I spent a good while searching for a decent tshirt that didn't have a choking high neckline and actually covered my arse. Spent £40 on two organic cotton tees from Seasalt and both produced holes in two washes.

It can go the hell for me, now. It used to be exciting, and I do love the re-emergence of 90's styles. But the cargo's ain't what they were back then. They're floppy, thin and formless with randomly placed pockets and gussets as long as the Gaza Strip. I just can't anymore. Fuck em all. Greed got the better of them I guess.

I ain't paying for a £400 fancy sheep wool, artisanal brick shaped jumper this winter. And I won't be paying £200 to avoid polyester this summer either. I'm just going with what I already have and hoping to god it lasts.

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Sansan18 · 14/06/2024 00:21

The jaegar range is m&s is fabulous quality, otherwise I shop in Boden,Super dry, Barbour, Lands end and vinted.Like a previous poster, I was really surprised at the quality of some of the items in Asda recently.I've a bit of a thing about corduroy shirts in the wintertime and there's were much better quality than M&S.

Catnipcupcakes · 14/06/2024 00:21

londonmummy1966 · 13/06/2024 23:30

@Catnipcupcakes - I hear you - it sounds a bit Village people crossed with 1970s communism. The styles are a bit utilitarian but the quality is good.

Thank you! I haven’t seen the clothes but the name sort of makes me think of ‘People Tree’ back in the day. Expensive, poorly designed and the dye ran everywhere.

Bigcat25 · 14/06/2024 00:57

Petrine · 13/06/2024 08:20

I think part of the problem is that clothing has to cover a huge range of sizes, all of which are priced the same. Recently someone remarked that the Sienna Miller range in M&S ‘only’ went up to size 20.

The cost of clothing needs to stay competitive so the quality goes down to absorb the increased costs involved with using double the amount of fabric to manufacture large sizes.

Apparently one shop tried to introduce pricing to reflect this (ie larger sizes costing more) but unsurprisingly it didn’t go down well and they abandoned it.

The lingerie brand empriente does charge more for e cups and up, fwiw. I used to sell them, could be slightly awkward sometimes but people didn't protest much.

LittleEsme · 14/06/2024 05:31

Catnipcupcakes · 13/06/2024 01:10

I mostly make my own now. Especially pyjama bottoms. So easy and a joy to wear and wash.

How? What are they like? Sounds lovely

LittleEsme · 14/06/2024 05:35

I agree. I used to be able to buy lovely cotton summer tops from Tesco - one I still have and it's about 15 years old. Now it's cheap polyester which I don't like.

Tinuviel · 14/06/2024 07:11

I make most of my clothes now and run sewing courses to teach other people. However, fabric is expensive so it does cost more but at least the clothes fit well, are mostly made of decent fabrics and last longer.

I have a couple of patterns that are so easy to make and yet look so smart for work (a dress and short unlined jacket). Anyone could make them!

Valeriekat · 14/06/2024 07:49

KenAdams · 13/06/2024 01:04

"As long as the Gaza Strip"?! That's in really poor taste.

Don't be so priggish.

Valeriekat · 14/06/2024 07:50

EatTheGnome · 13/06/2024 07:48

Learn to sew. Making that dream t shirt is easy, a beginner could do it. There are loads of free patterns and help online in Facebook groups.

Where do you get your fabric?

EatTheGnome · 14/06/2024 08:07

Valeriekat · 14/06/2024 07:50

Where do you get your fabric?

Loads of places, depending on what you fancy. I mostly shop with small businesses as they all offer smething different.

Northern Monkey Makes are great for cheap and cheerful. Mostly Jersey.
Clarabelle Fabrics do lovely stuff, but mostly for kids. Mostly Jersey.
Little Legs are really consistent and stock the widest range of stuff.

It is also well worth joining the UK Jersey, Knits and Destash facebook page if you like sewing with stretch. It's a market place for people wanting to sell off their fabric e.g. because kids tastes have changed as they have grown up. Very safe and not scammy, just make sure to follow follow rules and use PayPal. Lots of bargains to be had there!

Katemax82 · 14/06/2024 08:09

I buy from vinted now. I took my daughter to primark and the quality is not bad for the price but mainly I get both our stuff from vinted

Katemax82 · 14/06/2024 08:09

Valeriekat · 14/06/2024 07:50

Where do you get your fabric?

Many online fabric shops or eBay. I used to sew but I lost patience

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Auburngal · 14/06/2024 11:15

One thing that annoys me is that very few summer tops are 100% cotton. Polyester and vicose are sweaty pools

FatOaf · 14/06/2024 12:38

16% of the world's insecticide use is accounted for by the cotton crop. It also takes 2,700 litres of water to make one cotton T-shirt, with the cotton mostly grown in countries where water is a rare resource and is diverted from other important uses into profitable cotton production. People should be cautious about how many cotton garments they buy, as they contribute greatly to environmental destruction.

Precipice · 14/06/2024 12:45

Meanwhile, polyester releases microfibres into the water while being washed. This is plastic pollution of the oceans. It's also also unpleasant on the skin for many.

I agree about the quantity point. Buying lots of things when you already have an adequate supply of clothing of the relevant type is rampant consumerism. Unfortunately, looking at comments on S&B about fashion, I think this is something lots of people do, because they don't think previous clothes of theirs are 'in style' anymore (read: worn by lots of other people). We're not currently winning with fast fashion.

Catnipcupcakes · 14/06/2024 20:12

Valeriekat · 14/06/2024 07:50

Where do you get your fabric?

Online fabric shops. They range from very affordable (Fabric Galore is great) to expensive but worth it (Merchant and Mills).

Catnipcupcakes · 14/06/2024 20:15

LittleEsme · 14/06/2024 05:35

I agree. I used to be able to buy lovely cotton summer tops from Tesco - one I still have and it's about 15 years old. Now it's cheap polyester which I don't like.

I’ve got a really lovely broderie cotton top from tu at Sainsburys that’s just seen its 5th and last summer. I had a look the other day but could only see poly blends, even in white shirts. I don’t wear synthetics and its definitely got harder recently.

Tinuviel · 14/06/2024 21:26

Sustainability and the environment are issues whether you buy clothes or fabric. Linen and tencel are very environmentally friendly fabrics, although our local fabric shop doesn't stock much tencel.

Whilst I appreciate that cotton isn't great, it's better than using manmade fibres. Bamboo can be OK but it depends on the process they use to make it and you can't really know how they made it when you buy it.

Wideskye · 16/06/2024 11:20

Petrine · 13/06/2024 08:20

I think part of the problem is that clothing has to cover a huge range of sizes, all of which are priced the same. Recently someone remarked that the Sienna Miller range in M&S ‘only’ went up to size 20.

The cost of clothing needs to stay competitive so the quality goes down to absorb the increased costs involved with using double the amount of fabric to manufacture large sizes.

Apparently one shop tried to introduce pricing to reflect this (ie larger sizes costing more) but unsurprisingly it didn’t go down well and they abandoned it.

Saying that I have never seen reductions on petite sizes. They use less much less fabric.
Or ssme for my size 3 shoes compared with a size 6 or 7.

Ginmonkeyagain · 17/06/2024 08:03

I was remonded today of how clothes were better when I gotmout a summer blouse to wear to work.

I bought it from French Connection 16 years ago. It is a good quality, soft indian cotton print blouse with a neck tie. Still good 16 years later, not see though, good seams and a nice thickness.

I remember hesitating as it was £65 and I wasn't sure I would get that much wear out of it but I loved the print.

By contrast I tried on a puff sleeved cream blouse in French Connection last week as I was looking for a smart cream top to go with a skirt and it was terrible - elasticated puff sleeves, key hole back that was too deep so it showed the top of my bra band,
despite being lined it was transluscent and a slippery viscose type material.

Pottedpalm · 17/06/2024 08:20

I agree about m&s pyjamas. I like cotton jersey jacket and trousers style ones and m&s ones have worn dreadfully. They are literally in shreds and the fabric is so poor the elastic waistband is cutting through. I will be cutting them up gor dusters.
i tried Sainsbury’s and the fabric is better but they shrink on washing.

Ilikeadrink14 · 06/03/2025 10:32

EatTheGnome · 13/06/2024 07:48

Learn to sew. Making that dream t shirt is easy, a beginner could do it. There are loads of free patterns and help online in Facebook groups.

Rather an unhelpful response, I feel. Making your own clothes, if you haven’t before, is not an easy thing to do. Also, you will need to buy a sewing machine, dressmaking scissors, measuring tape and a host of other stuff. So, ‘make your own’ is a LOT easier said than done!

MrsClausMaybe · 06/03/2025 11:02

TootGoesTheOwl · 13/06/2024 12:59

I think you have answered the question I would have asked.....I am plus sized (20 on top 16 ish on the bottom and tall, about 5'10) and was tentatively wondering about starting to make some of my own clothes but I think I would struggle to find patterns suitable for my size.
I am finding the quality of everything, not just clothing going down hill rapidly. I work in a similar industry to clothing and the corners being cut to create a profit margin are unbelievable. Sadly with things like shipping costs (eye watering) being taken into account something has to give and 99% of the time it is the end product that suffers.

Re sewing patterns - check out Cashmerette patterns. (Not an ad, not affiliated!) They do all sizes "for curves", and their trousers are helpfully already sized for "pear" or "apple" shapes. Their patterns generally also have cup sizes.

The instructions are very good, there is often a sew-along video, and many patterns are suitable for beginners.

MrsClausMaybe · 06/03/2025 11:31

Ilikeadrink14 · 06/03/2025 10:32

Rather an unhelpful response, I feel. Making your own clothes, if you haven’t before, is not an easy thing to do. Also, you will need to buy a sewing machine, dressmaking scissors, measuring tape and a host of other stuff. So, ‘make your own’ is a LOT easier said than done!

I completely agree with this!!! Clothing accessibility and quality is a structural issue, and to say "oh just make your own" is SUCH a high bar to meet.

Maybe we can compare this to food - if one is avoiding ultra-processed food, one can just "make all your own bread." OKAY?? But its actually not that easy or cheap!

(I make quite a lot of my own clothes, I have tried making bread (even in a bread maker) and it was inedible!)

EatTheGnome · 06/03/2025 15:13

Ilikeadrink14 · 06/03/2025 10:32

Rather an unhelpful response, I feel. Making your own clothes, if you haven’t before, is not an easy thing to do. Also, you will need to buy a sewing machine, dressmaking scissors, measuring tape and a host of other stuff. So, ‘make your own’ is a LOT easier said than done!

It's really not, as someone who taught myself.