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Not to share 'content creator' friends posts?

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Bearpawk · 12/06/2024 16:13

Hi there
I largely use social media to view videos to my 2 hobbies and my profiles are set to private. old school friend is trying to make a living from sales via an Instagram account she created especially for this advertising . Mainly uses her kids and dog to create adverts for products she's been gifted or discounted. I don't follow her ads page (only her personal one) because I'm not interested in being bombarded by adverts for products I'll never use - I have neither kids nor dogs.

From what I can see it's largely the same demographic of women all following liking and promoting one another in one big echo chamber - I don't understand how they make any money.. but whatever.

The problem is she keeps sending WhatsApps and posts asking us to all follow and share her posts on her business page. I don't want to follow it, as I said I've no interest in the content and if I'm completely honestly the ad voiceovers are incredibly wooden and I'd be a bit embarrassed sharing them.

Aibu to politely ignore the requests?

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BeeCucumber · 12/06/2024 16:24

YANBU - your “friend” sounds like a MLM hun bot.

yellowsmileyface · 12/06/2024 16:46

YADNBU. Those kinds of videos are terribly cringey. I wouldn't want to share either.

It does sound like she's gotten involved in an MLM. I'm extremely morally against MLMs, so whilst I do have some sympathy for those taken advantage of by such scams, I feel very strongly against supporting them in any way, even if under the guise of "supporting a friend".

Bearpawk · 12/06/2024 17:33

It's not an MLM as such, it's brands we'll have heard of and local venue reviews etc.
So it's not scentsy/ Arbonne or whatever.
Holland and barret or neom will pay or send them freebies to promote.
But they're all just promoting them to eachother - not the wider public is that makes sense? But because they're all sharing and liking each others posts I guess it looks successful?
It's like influencing on a really mundane level.

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Jeezitneverends · 12/06/2024 17:35

YANBU at all-it’s highly unlikely she’ll be earning any actual money from this stuff, just getting the freebies

FatmanandKnobbin · 12/06/2024 17:35

I would tell her that you're not comfortable sharing her child to strangers online so won't be participating in sharing anything.

RoseUnder · 12/06/2024 17:39

She's asking you to provide free marketing for the products she's selling, by distributing her ads to your personal network.

Just as you wouldn't go door-to-door for her posting flyers and endorsing her products in person, neither do you need to do this digitally.

I'd just ignore - and if she asks you to do it directly, say 'sorry, not how I use social'

Nb, I wonder how her children will feel being used as advertising, once they're old enough to realise/consent/object.

Bearpawk · 12/06/2024 19:58

'Not how I use socials' is a really good line thank you.

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Bearpawk · 12/06/2024 19:59

@FatmanandKnobbin exactly this, I have my profile set to private (although I have quite a lot of friends/ followers) I don't ever share pics of my friends kids on there for that very reason

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Itllfalloff · 13/06/2024 00:50

Ignore!

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