Dd works with vulnerable clients but is also disabled and vulnerable herself. i feel this is relevant.
She is also one of the youngest staff members. Most other staff are at least several years older.
One of dds colleagues is always late despite living walking distance from work and last week joked if it happened again other staff could confiscate his cigarettes for the day. He was late again tonight and someone did hide them which is stupid but something the person whose cigarettes were taken does to others all the time.(he has previously taken dds phone and hid it even though she has disability communication apps on there and her phone is vital for the journey home etc. )
The person has wrongly presumed dd had hidden them presumably because previously talked to him more (it was not her) and absolutely lost their shit with her, completely switched.
They have been aggressive, refused to speak to her at work and called dd names in front of clients including referring to her as a minion of Hitler randomly. Something he is still standing by.
Even when told by the person who actually took them that it was not dd they have refused to back down and have carried on the comments and behaviour. They were only aggressive to dd even though they are now saying all the staff conspired against him are all are to blame.
He wasn't brave enough to behave like that to older staff or other men there and is still messaging dd telling her she's in the wrong not him.
There are many reasons why I don't like this colleague because of things he has done and said previously but the complete aggression tonight has made me worry as he travels alone and works alone with my dd weekly.
I'm autistic so so not know if I am over reacting myself.