It took until I was 46 to find someone with whom I could climax through PiV alone, who I felt absolutely emotionally connected with, fancied each other like crazy, felt cared for and respected.
Unfortunately, nearly every other aspect of the relationship was truly toxic. So it’s had to end.
It’s the first time I’ve actually got what the big deal was all about, and I’ve had several long-term partners before this.
Now I’m really worried it was just something that happened with him, that I’ll never find anyone with whom it will be that good. And it’s suddenly really important to me, having forgone the good stuff all my life!
Can anyone reassure me that it’ll be possible to find that with someone else?