£14k on a liability order & over £1k arrears since the LO was made. It's taken 7 years to get to this point but the CMS are finally applying for a court date to impose sanctions. I am completely unsupported (parents are dead, friends all work), he chooses not to have contact & his family aren't interested. Maintenance would mean a better life for the kids plus I'd be able to have a day off now & then which is currently an out of reach pipedream (locum - if I don't work, I don't get paid & I can't afford the paycut of a permanent contract).
Do sanctions actually work? I know they'll impose loss of driving licence or passport. Or they'll give him a suspended sentence & the suspension will be lifted if he doesn't pay..... but all of that relies on the police, & my experience of the police is that they're just not interested.
I'm sick of fighting & I'm worn out in general. I just can't see an end to this, he is determined he won't contribute a thing financially or practically & I'm thoroughly expecting he'll find a way to continue shirking, enabled as usual by the CMS & police.
YANBU - sanctions did not work for me.
YABU - sanctions did work for me.