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to not want to watch somebodys childs that ive never met...

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benbon · 07/04/2008 13:54

i live in a close that has a block of council flats in it so there are always lots of children playing with ball out the front i see this little playing out most days

today when i was taking my son out to tesco's this little boy was asking me if he could come with me, i said to him that that wouldnt be a very good idea as i dont know his mummy and it wouldnt be very much fun... he replied that he really wanted to come i told him that maybe if he asked his mummy he could come round another day and play.

so he sat on my wall and watched us drive away (this was about half 10 ish)
when i returned from collecting my daughter and going to tescos (about quarter to 1 ish) he was still outside my house and asked if he could come and play today i told him he could in half an hour so we could have lunch.

so i sat the kids down for lunch and this boy waited in my front garden watching us till i told him he could come in.

i asked him his name and age he's 6 and asked if his mummy was at home he said that every one he lives with is at work and that he can look after hisself and that he is looking after his sisters aswell i asked him again if every one was at work and he said yes then he said that he mum was actually at home and that daddy was at work...
five minutes later he said that actually daddy would be at home by now...

am i being unreasnable to be worried? not really sure what i should do bear in mind i have never met his mum, dad or anyone i dont even know this boy????????????

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benbon · 07/04/2008 14:27

bless he has gone back out to play with his ball i dont think he likes being in a house where they get watched...

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benbon · 07/04/2008 14:30

not sure i gave him chocolate though... to be honest somedays i just wanna stay in my pjs till the afternoon so i cant be to mean...

but alls well that ends well she was home so its fine..

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Yurtgirl · 07/04/2008 14:34

Has he got siblings under 5? If he has you could mention your concerns to your hv who may well be theirs too.

He does sound desperate for attention

benbon · 07/04/2008 14:35

i think this sisters ar 2 ish and a few months..

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OrmIrian · 07/04/2008 14:36

You do know that you will never be free of him now don't you?

OatcakeCravings · 07/04/2008 14:41

Quick phone SS someone in nightware at 2pm outrageous absolutely outrageous

OatcakeCravings · 07/04/2008 14:41

NIGHTWEAR

rookiemater · 07/04/2008 14:49

Do you know sometimes I'm amazed by Mumsnet.

On another thread I'm the only poster who would even consider having a fully trained babysitter look after a 9 week old and 3 yr old, yet apparently according to some its highly amusing that a 6 yr old is left to fend for himself all day long.

Ok my horror at the nightdress at 2pm, is now, I see unfounded, but I can't even bear to have my breakfast until I am showered and dressed so you have to bear with me.

I just feel there is some inverse snobbery going on here. Mention the word council estate and all of a sudden its somehow wrong to say neglect or social services.

benbon · 07/04/2008 15:02

i agree with you some people on mumsnet amaze me you cannot be concerned about things without some one taking the mick out of you..

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hercules1 · 07/04/2008 15:15

I'm not sure what the problem is here. The child is more than likely popping in and out of it's home and you didnt see this as you were out. Children say all sorts of things about their parents whereabouts so you can't possibly read anything into that.
You don't know either whether it was fed or not.
There could be a billion reasons why she was in her nightie.

As for she looks rough....

Why on earth would you or anyone be considering reporting her to social services ?

Minkus · 07/04/2008 15:24

Ah har, his sisters are 2 ish and a few months. That prob explains the nightie (well I think it will with me in a few months time after I have dc2!)

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