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To wonder how we ever did 5 days a week in an office?

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OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:04

I work hard and love my job (legal). Spent a day in the office today for the first time in months and honestly feel sick. The people flu! I couldn't go back. All those blokes in the City saying WFH was an "aberration" are deluded.

I get that some people love it and there's enough diversity in this world for everyone to find their niche but Oh My God am I glad I don't have to do the daily traipse any more.

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Keepthosenamesgoing · 07/06/2024 19:05

Agree! I love wfh ! I get so much done, lunch break I can go for a run or get the laundry done. It is just brilliant on a Friday to finish at 5 and be enjoying a glass of wine at 5.01!

carsty · 07/06/2024 19:06

lol @OptimismvsRealism same here. I cant bear to think how id manage going back to the office 5 days a week and looking back, I dnt know how we even managed that😅.

stillavid · 07/06/2024 19:07

I think wfh works better for older people - honestly it would have been rubbish for me in my first post university job. Living in a shared house working from my room wouldn't have been fun.

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:07

And no stressful draining people around and needing to "perform working" in addition to actually working

Bliss!

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Sahara123 · 07/06/2024 19:07

Well quite a lot of us still do 5 days in an office ..

Thevelvelletes · 07/06/2024 19:07

And how many calls/emails go unanswered because of WFH policy particularly in public facilities such as HMRC, DVLA etc.

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Sahara123 · 07/06/2024 19:07

Well quite a lot of us still do 5 days in an office ..

Well if it works for you then great! I quite literally couldn't.

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 07/06/2024 19:09

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:07

And no stressful draining people around and needing to "perform working" in addition to actually working

Bliss!

You sound like a misanthropist

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 07/06/2024 19:09

Thevelvelletes · 07/06/2024 19:07

And how many calls/emails go unanswered because of WFH policy particularly in public facilities such as HMRC, DVLA etc.

Loads, I reckon.

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Thevelvelletes · 07/06/2024 19:07

And how many calls/emails go unanswered because of WFH policy particularly in public facilities such as HMRC, DVLA etc.

I'd say I get about three times as much done as I did in the office days. I think a lot of people are like me.

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thistimelastweek · 07/06/2024 19:11

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Well if it works for you then great! I quite literally couldn't.

I suspect you quite literally could if it were the only way you could keep a roof over your head.

Spirallingdownwards · 07/06/2024 19:12

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Well if it works for you then great! I quite literally couldn't.

Well some "literally" have to.

Topofthemountain · 07/06/2024 19:12

Well you woke up, got ready, left the house, travelled and then, well, worked.

I mean it's not exactly a difficult achievement. Lots of us manage it fairly well.

By 'we' you mean 'I'

Icannoteven · 07/06/2024 19:12

OMG. I’ve just realised what has caused the massive reduction in my migraines the last few years! Its definitely since I’ve been WFH the majority of the time. I don’t know if it’s because I’m less tired, because I have more control over the lighting and noise of my environment at home or that I eat better/excercise better when I WFH but there has been about an 80 percent improvement of frequency AND intensity since I’ve been away from the office.

PinkiOcelot · 07/06/2024 19:12

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Well if it works for you then great! I quite literally couldn't.

We’ll some of us don’t have the choice.

Miloandfreddy · 07/06/2024 19:13

WFH has changed my life.. I can take kids to school, once I finish I can start on dinner rather than an hour commute. Laundry done during lunch hour, no distractions from colleagues.. I am twice as efficient at my job and twice as happy. If I had to go back to the office 5 days a week honestly I would be distraught.

atticstage · 07/06/2024 19:13

Thevelvelletes · 07/06/2024 19:07

And how many calls/emails go unanswered because of WFH policy particularly in public facilities such as HMRC, DVLA etc.

Their crap customer service is because they're under-resourced and under-staffed. It's a high pressure job for minimum wage. People aren't exactly biting their hands off to do it.

Plantymcplantface · 07/06/2024 19:13

Spirallingdownwards · 07/06/2024 19:12

Well some "literally" have to.

Edited

about 40% of UK employees actually: medics, carers, service personnel, caterers, transport, manufacturing….

Sahara123 · 07/06/2024 19:13

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Well if it works for you then great! I quite literally couldn't.

It doesn’t but I don’t have the option!

mollyfolk · 07/06/2024 19:14

I love it as well. It’s the answer to being a working parent. I can drop them to activities in the afternoon, make dinner on my lunch break.

@Thevelvelletes - calls and emails should absolutely not go unanswered. WFH is definitely a privileged not an excuse for people to doss off and stuff like this needs to be monitored.

Orangello · 07/06/2024 19:14

the flexibility is the thing for me. I can pick up the kids, drop them to their clubs, finish work from home. No wraparound needed, it's brilliant.

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:15

thistimelastweek · 07/06/2024 19:11

I suspect you quite literally could if it were the only way you could keep a roof over your head.

No, I couldn't. I'm really lucky that the choice has come about now.

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OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:15

Icannoteven · 07/06/2024 19:12

OMG. I’ve just realised what has caused the massive reduction in my migraines the last few years! Its definitely since I’ve been WFH the majority of the time. I don’t know if it’s because I’m less tired, because I have more control over the lighting and noise of my environment at home or that I eat better/excercise better when I WFH but there has been about an 80 percent improvement of frequency AND intensity since I’ve been away from the office.

100% - I find this too

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Pontipinecity · 07/06/2024 19:16

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:09

Well if it works for you then great! I quite literally couldn't.

Wow. Some of us have no choice. It’s draining and full on but better than not having an income. Lucky you that you can earn a decent living working from home.

OptimismvsRealism · 07/06/2024 19:17

Sahara123 · 07/06/2024 19:13

It doesn’t but I don’t have the option!

Highly recommend you move if you can. Employers who are flexible abound!

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