Not literally on them but in front. Used to be close friends with her but she went quiet and distant for no reason.
Well clearly there was a reason. It wasn't just a natural drifting apart, it was a friend who used to go out of her way to message me most days,then becoming someone who would only respond to me if I replied first.
She texted me for my birthday so I thought maybe it was just in my head. I tried to keep the friendship going but when she ignored a few of my messages, I knew it was time to move on. She'd also stopped initiating.
If I saw her in person she was friendly and chatty but I felt she was just pretending to be polite.
Anyway I just stopped talking and moved on, I still see her around about once a week because of a shared hobby/friend group so it's tough.
We never fell out, I really can't think of anything offensive I did, she just didn't need me anymore.
I saw her on her own at the end of the hobby and she came over. I was being distant, which I've never been before and she said she was sorry she'd been so crap at replying.
She indicated she'd been like that with everyone and just kept forgetting and that it really wasn't intentional. I ended up getting a bit teary and just explained how I felt.
She promised me it wasn't deliberate. I think it is but I knew I just had to let it go and give her the benefit of the doubt so I told her it was ok. She told me she'd try to make more effort.
I've not heard from her since, if I do see her I'll be polite. It happens, people come and go. People can drop you at any minute which is sad, I feel like an idiot for crying though.