Just really seeking opinions not having a big rant (it all worked out fine for me in the end).
I went for minor surgery under general anaesthetic at the start of the week. It was through my private medical insurance so not an NHS hospital.
As part of the routine all women aged 12 to 55 are asked to take a pregnancy test as surgery could be detrimental to the fetus. I am definitely not pregnant but agreed to take a test.
As I had not drunk all night prior to the surgery and had a large pee in the morning before arriving, try as I might I could not produce a sample for the test. After quite a long time of trying it was time for the op. I asked if they could find out what was happening and if the op could go ahead if I signed a consent form acknowledging I was not pregnant.
The next thing I knew the nurses were entering saying that they needed to put a catheter in to extract urine to do the pregnancy test. I declined this and said that I would not agree to having an embarrassing intimate procedure that carries risks to my bladder health in order to tick a box for the hospital when there is no chance on earth I could be pregnant. I would rather not do the procedure.
The consultant then arrived and said of course that was fine so long as I signed to say I know the risks.
I suppose my aibu is just why should women be pushed to have an intimate procedure like a catheter in order to tick a box that they are not pregnant. I understand that asking all women routinely to do pregnancy tests reduces the risks of accidentally carrying out surgery on a pregnant woman (although I would suggest this is misogynistic assuming women cannot make their own decisions) but I think expecting women to have a catheter to deal with this goes too far. At that stage they should just emphasise the risks and asked for signed acknowledgement (like I did in the end).