WWYD if you recieved an anonymous message about the guy you are dating?

[trekking1]

The message is from the person who used to date him who claims he infected her with an STD and I should be careful. Do I tell him about this message?

But also, sidenote. How does she know who you are after two dates?

Thinking about any of the guys I’ve only been on two dates with, I wouldn’t know who their exs were or them would know who mine were either 🤷🏽‍♀️ The ex’s certainly wouldn’t know who I was!!!

Could be a jealous ex that doesn't want him to move on from her.

Still doesn't explain how she knows you're seeing him and how she got your contact details.

I wouldn't say anything to him and I would reply to her "sorry, who is this" or some such.

It would be giving me amber warnings about him - either because he's got an sti or because he's got unfinished business with an ex. Eyes wide open OP.

Deffo suggest both of you get tested before you dtd though.

Proceed with caution!

RUN!

He is either an STI spreading twat.
OR
Has a vengeful ex.

You want no part in either.

Not all stds are prevented by condoms. Some are sling to skin contact not bodily fluids

Worst case scenario either he's got a weirdo ex/bunny boiler who will start harassing you should you not leg it or he's a walking STD. Either case 2 dates in I'd run for the hills. You don't need that type of aggro after just 2 dates.