So I don't really know where to post this so it's here. For 27 years my mothers told me who my biological father was, he didn't want to know me and always denied I was his, over the years mainly when I was under 18 we tried to get him to do dna tests he said no everytime or even when he said yes he didn't follow through. I had no dad for 27 years he lived in the same town as me and I'd see him with his other kids and I never said anything or made his life hard. I posted my dna on a dna website and last month it popped up I had a match - a half sibling, finally proving he's my bio dad. He's messaged me asking to meet I've said yeah, he's said in a couple of weeks but nothing has come of it, he messaged me saying how am I but when I've replied he's liked my message and left it, half siblings have said they wanted to meet me but no plans have been made and they hardly speak to me over text. I'm curious to meet them and know them but I also feel like they should be the one making the effort, am I wrong for thinking that? I also feel like I'm being so polite when really I just want to message bio dad and say are we meeting or are you not interested, if there not interested it's fine but I hate the feeling of being in limbo. Any advice? Sorry for how long this is 😂