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AIBU?

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Aibu to be upset about this work situation?

8 replies

user4583722 · 04/06/2024 18:40

I work in retail and work part time 5 days per week 9-2. I have been doing this shift pattern for the past 4 years. Before this I was working full time but after been diagnosed with cancer I reduced my hours as I get quite tired in the afternoon.
Recently a few staff members have left who were working 9-6 and my manager has employed two staff members who can only work till 2.30pm due to childcare. He told me that because of them having children I will need to swap my shift pattern to afternoons.
AIBU to be upset about this? I know a lot of parents request flexible working patterns but I thought anyone could.

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TruthorDie · 04/06/2024 18:43

Hmm after so long not sure he can do that. I’m a big fan of first come, first served. Why is it your problem the new people don’t have childcare. They shouldn’t have accepted the job if they can’t do afternoons / lates

doesthisonework · 04/06/2024 18:45

You should be covered under the disability act for reasonable adjustments in the workplace following your cancer diagnosis and this should take precedence over people who need childcare. So I don't think you are wrong to feel upset and I think you should fight your corner.

Whaleandsnail6 · 04/06/2024 18:46

I would definitely fight this if doing the afternoons doesn't suit you. I'd go to hr and my union. If they needed staff to cover evenings, they shouldnt have employed 2 people who can only do until 2.30pm without checking some else could change shifts first

CheshireDing · 04/06/2024 18:50

I can't see how they can just change it on you after you have been doing that shift for so long without very good reason (and new people accepting a job without adequate childcare is not good reason).

Push back, so 'no this can't be changed, this shift pattern was agreed for me 4 years ago with HR for medical reasons' (or similar wording)

Notimeforaname · 04/06/2024 18:52

Push back, so 'no this can't be changed, this shift pattern was agreed for me 4 years ago with HR for medical reasons' (or similar wording)

Do this. Dont just let it happen. It's for your health.

KreedKafer · 04/06/2024 18:53

YANBU. The fact that new colleagues have kids isn't your problem and if your contract/terms and conditions state that you work 9-2, you should be able to stick with those hours.

BobbyBiscuits · 04/06/2024 18:57

I'd say you've a medical reason to not be able to work later. Cancer is a protected characteristic, so if your treatment or illness makes you tired or unwell later in the day, then I think they are obliged to try and facilitate that. They clearly have managed to do so for 4 years.
What does your contract say? If there's a business reason they can claim that in relation to changing people's flexibility, but I'd speak to ACAS. If you're not in a union?
Have you already approached HR? If not I'd say do so and tell your manager you are doing so.

Roundroundthegarden · 04/06/2024 19:34

Yanbu, definitely fight this. Other people's childcare isn't your problem so they shouldn't make it.

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