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Should I be worried about my savings?

112 replies

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 17:57

or lack thereof

We’ve got 20k between us. I don’t know, it hit me today that some people might consider that incredibly low. Is it? Should I be putting my sole focus into building back up my savings.

2 adults 2 children (one nursery- 15 hrs)

atm it’s a moderate focus. Spare cash goes towards travel and savings

from my old financial advise days it was around 6 months living expenses in savings which I think that is. Am I flapping over nothing?

(we just shelled out 40k for our htb and 20k for a new car)

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Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 18:59

NosyJosie · 03/06/2024 18:56

You’re asking how long your piece of string should be …. so this is a meaningless question.

It’s not for anyone to say if you should be worrying or not. Without knowing what you and your husband do for a living (clearly not used cars salesmen), risk factors etc, how on earth would anyone else be able to advise on YOUR comfort level?!

I think a 6 month buffer would be a good idea for most couples if it’s unlikely you’d both be jobless at the same time

Could’ve sworn I said in my OP it was about 6 months expenses but I’ve just re read it and i didn’t . My bad.

we can’t guarantee we won’t lose our jobs at the same time. It seems improbable but it’s possible

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dolphinsmakemecry · 03/06/2024 18:59

Well I've got £700 savings and I'm approaching retirement age. So if I were you OP, no I wouldn't be worried. I'd be ecstatic!

incywincyspiders · 03/06/2024 19:02

@Sosomuchpain it is a baity post because unless you have been living under a rock you would absolutely know that many, many people would have no savings whatsoever. It's either baity or you are very out of touch. Which, given the current political climate, is quite worrying.

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 19:05

incywincyspiders · 03/06/2024 19:02

@Sosomuchpain it is a baity post because unless you have been living under a rock you would absolutely know that many, many people would have no savings whatsoever. It's either baity or you are very out of touch. Which, given the current political climate, is quite worrying.

But people from different backgrounds and income levels can all worry about their nest egg. Especially given how much harder it is to save nower days

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vodkaredbullgirl · 03/06/2024 19:08

Only nest egg is my pension, in 12 years I can retire.

ssd · 03/06/2024 19:09

incywincyspiders · 03/06/2024 18:37

I absolutely hate these baity posts in the middle of a cost of living crisis.

Hear hear 👏👏👏

CheshireDing · 03/06/2024 19:10

I know you didn't ask for sympathy OP, my point was saying that you wouldn't get any from me.

Sorry but you come across as a bit bratty.

YABU . You have a good chunk of savings, you have just spent a good chunk of savings (you could have spent less than that but decided to get a warranty etc too).

No you shouldn't be worried. Yes you should be more aware and read the room.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/06/2024 19:12

OP seriously. You’d have to be living under a rock not to know how this post would be perceived.
Ideally people should have 6 months expenses saved up but most people probably don’t.
Those of us who are in a position to save should acknowledge that we are in a privileged position and take our queries to a dedicated money section or site perhaps.

XiCi · 03/06/2024 19:13

ive seen different figures, that the average is 11k or 17k
So you already know you are doing better than average so why worry

MuttsNutts · 03/06/2024 19:14

Some people will have more, some people will have less and some people will have nothing at all. We have no idea of your living situation, financial outgoings or anything else - how are randoms on the internet supposed to know how much money you personally need?

It sounds like you’re doing ok. There, is that better? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 19:15

CheshireDing · 03/06/2024 19:10

I know you didn't ask for sympathy OP, my point was saying that you wouldn't get any from me.

Sorry but you come across as a bit bratty.

YABU . You have a good chunk of savings, you have just spent a good chunk of savings (you could have spent less than that but decided to get a warranty etc too).

No you shouldn't be worried. Yes you should be more aware and read the room.

My question was more on, if you were me, would you put your focus into building back up your savings and pausing all travel and holidays or basically don’t sweat it and carry on as is, gradual build up

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ViciousCurrentBun · 03/06/2024 19:20

It’s the sort of question that really is irrelevant because for starters you haven't put your age or possible career projection. You also haven’t put what a years living expenses are for you. That’s the starting point to all budgeting with a % increase for inflation.

persisted · 03/06/2024 19:22

No, you shouldn't worry because that's a waste of time.

Sit and work it out, what happens if the roof needs repairing? The boiler blows up? One of you had an accident and was on sick pay for a year? Whatever other calamity comes about...(or a few at once, as is sometimes the way)

Then decide - yes I need more savings, or no I don't and own your priorities.

I would always choose the rainy day fund, there have been some very wet times in my life.

Willyoujustbequiet · 03/06/2024 19:23

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 18:30

I don’t think that’s true,

ive seen different figures, that the average is 11k or 17k and as a PP said about a 1/4 have basically none

But the average is clearly skewed by the very wealthy so that's not representative at all.

65% of people don't have enough to last more than 3 months so you're well ahead of most.

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 19:36

persisted · 03/06/2024 19:22

No, you shouldn't worry because that's a waste of time.

Sit and work it out, what happens if the roof needs repairing? The boiler blows up? One of you had an accident and was on sick pay for a year? Whatever other calamity comes about...(or a few at once, as is sometimes the way)

Then decide - yes I need more savings, or no I don't and own your priorities.

I would always choose the rainy day fund, there have been some very wet times in my life.

Dh would get 100% for 6 months and then 65% still state retirement

id get 12 weeks and then 65% til retirement

boiler and roof ? Yikes I’d have cow, no idea how much they cost

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Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 19:39

ViciousCurrentBun · 03/06/2024 19:20

It’s the sort of question that really is irrelevant because for starters you haven't put your age or possible career projection. You also haven’t put what a years living expenses are for you. That’s the starting point to all budgeting with a % increase for inflation.

We’re mid 30s, fairly good progression. I earn 52k (+ 10-15% bonus) dh 57 (15% bonus). Dh Closer to his next step than I.

biggest outlays are childcare and mortgage. we spend about 3k a month and then budget about 6k annually for holidays.

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Overthebow · 03/06/2024 19:42

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 19:15

My question was more on, if you were me, would you put your focus into building back up your savings and pausing all travel and holidays or basically don’t sweat it and carry on as is, gradual build up

Just realised you meant you’ve paid off your htb loan? In which case that’s not too bad. I would want more than £20k if it’s your total savings, and also make sure you’re putting enough into your pensions and also saving for your DC. £6k ok holidays each year is a lot when you only have the basic emergency fund, could you half it for a few years and build up your savings quicker? Then go back to the more expensive travel.

Fab238 · 03/06/2024 19:42

Well if my posts in the child benefit thread is anything to go by, a lot of folks would say you're extremely lucky to be in tbis position. I, however, disagree. In my view, you should have atleast 6 months of your net salary saved up to cover any eventualities. Whether or not this is achievable for you, I don't know - but that is my view!

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 19:57

Overthebow · 03/06/2024 19:42

Just realised you meant you’ve paid off your htb loan? In which case that’s not too bad. I would want more than £20k if it’s your total savings, and also make sure you’re putting enough into your pensions and also saving for your DC. £6k ok holidays each year is a lot when you only have the basic emergency fund, could you half it for a few years and build up your savings quicker? Then go back to the more expensive travel.

Edited

Yeah just paid most of that cash to minimise rate shock.

that was this year, we had a big hols. Year before we did 4k
yeah it’s our total savings.
we still save £75 a month for each kid.
pensions dh has 14% of salary and I 13%.

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Regretsandregrets · 03/06/2024 19:59

I would personally prefer an emergency fund covering 12 month's expenses and a good amount saved in pension before i prioritize travel. A car bought for more than 15k is a saving opportunity wasted.

BobnLen · 03/06/2024 20:00

I'm guess your house is fairly new as you had HTB so hopefully won't need repairs or updating so yes £20k sounds fine. Are you putting any extra money into your pension and also never too soon to think about university costs.

BobnLen · 03/06/2024 20:03

I just see you posted about pensions, they look fairly average.

Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 20:10

BobnLen · 03/06/2024 20:03

I just see you posted about pensions, they look fairly average.

It’s max matched we can do atm (aware we can do more if we chose but atm have chose to have it as savings)

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Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 20:12

Regretsandregrets · 03/06/2024 19:59

I would personally prefer an emergency fund covering 12 month's expenses and a good amount saved in pension before i prioritize travel. A car bought for more than 15k is a saving opportunity wasted.

I guess because because we’ve got another 35 years working we’ve just figured we’ll keep that building up.

we couldn’t really get a newish 7 seater that fits 3 across for less than 17

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Sosomuchpain · 03/06/2024 20:13

Fab238 · 03/06/2024 19:42

Well if my posts in the child benefit thread is anything to go by, a lot of folks would say you're extremely lucky to be in tbis position. I, however, disagree. In my view, you should have atleast 6 months of your net salary saved up to cover any eventualities. Whether or not this is achievable for you, I don't know - but that is my view!

So about 36k!

i like this 6 months net. It’s a nice figure to work with, probably take a year/ 18 months to get there, depending on expenses

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