I posted a while ago because DPs friend got him a well paid job, but said that he'd pass him along to this woman and all he had to do was flirt, and that she would try and sleep with him because she does with everyone. This was quite a hoohaa, because do you believe something like that? I thought he was taking the piss, but it actually turned out to be true.
Thankfully, my DP got his interview with the other boss (who is male) and got the job because he's very good at what he does.
I don't see why he should not have a well paid job just because of some woman. However, I didn't like her phone calls with him, she was very flirty and said some rather inappropriate things, and then when he went to see her to sort out hours and benefits, she was much too forward for my liking.
But he's not a cheat, and he can be trusted, plus she's much older and I think, really, she's making a fool of herself, so I sent him off to work there.
That's just the bakground.
Anyway, she continues to flirt in phone calls, which I hear, because it's on his mobile so if I'm next to him I can hear what's said, and he in no way eggs her on. So I thought she'd get the message but she's just not.
The other boss gave him a rota and then she changed it so that she's in with my DP all night twice a week, and an hour a night otherwise. He said he couldn't do it because it's quite far away and I'm 35 weeks pregnant so he wants to be able to come back quick if I go into labour. She said tough, he'd have to.
So I was having REALLY bad braxton hicks one night, and I couldn't keep anything down not even water, and had an agonising water infection, and had a little show, so he had to come home from work to take me up to the labour ward.
The next day he asked again if he could change his hours to avoid leaving me alone all night (particularly as these wern't even the hours arranged when he took the job). She said no.
So then she starts saying 'don't worry, you're not in any trouble, but I'll smack your bum for going home the other night.'
Excuse me??? Smack his bum?? Who talks like that!?
The reason this has annoyed me is because he came home to me as we were worried and had to go to the labour ward.. how is that a bad thing? He had warned them he may have to leave as I was struggling, so they gave him a list of things to do if he had to go, and he did all of those things before leaving.
She's still flirting with him all the time, and when he's working and she's not (she lives on the site) she goes to see him all the time in the middle of the night for no reason.
I just wish she'd sod off!