Help is my DH being UR

[myselfand]

I'm not sure where to start here considering it's not about me but my H... so he has a group of friends, whose wives have become my friends.
But it seems that the men have formed a WhatsApp group with everyone one else except him. He has known about this with a little whilr but recently it's become more prominent for example plans have been made a couple of weeks in advance and my DH only finds out a day or two.
Tonight, it came to a head where 3-4 of them were going out but the details were discussed in this other group and he just had to roll with it.
My heart is breaking for him because he's good to every one of them and is being deliberately isolated. He broke down to me this evening but still went out, which I think he needed to do. But it feels like playground mind games even though we're in our 40s!
I really want to bring it up with the women, even though I know it's not my circus but I've just reached the point where I cant do nothing.
I'd appreciate any advise on how to deal with grown adults! Thanks all x

He needs to ask the admin to add him.

Agree he needs to go straight to the admin and ask what’s up.

I’m guessing there are some messages in the group, possibly about him, that they don’t want him to see so adding him now will be a problem.

Or possibly one guy has an issue and nobody has the balls to co front him about it.

it seems so strange that such good friends would do this.

Definitely definitely cut out the group they are all complicit in this. I had this happen to myself with a supposed group of friends who said my adhd made it hard for them and they needed a break from me. So I cut the whole group and now I have new friends who are awesome so never be scared to cut out people who are bullies it is your life and it is too short to take this crap from supposed friends.