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To be paranoid about my job offer being withdrawn

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iamsostressedx · 31/05/2024 21:08

I've been applying for jobs and had 2 offers. The first one was a verbal offer and was actually withdrawn without explanation (likely disorganisation on the company's part). That's never happened to me before and it was just awful as I'd been so happy and relieved to get it and then was left with uncertainty when they withdrew it.

I received another offer from somewhere else, over the phone and then I had all the documents and things sent to me via email. The offer is subject to me passing the DBS check and medical check. I have no reasons to worry about the DBS (I hope!!) but I was honest on the health questionnaire and said I have mild problems with my back and have had physio in the past, but I've never had a day off work because of it. I mentioned this to my family who said I shouldn't have said anything. I only put it on the form as it specifically asked about musculoskeletal issues and I thought it was better to be honest. My back won't really affect my ability to work but I originally wanted to just make them aware.

However, now I'm regretting saying anything because of what my family said and because of what happened with the other job offer.
Logically I know I shouldn't be worrying and the most that will come of it is a chat with a doctor who will see that I'm fine, but I've had such bad luck with jobs lately... can't help but worry, so this is more looking for reassurance.

And no, I haven't disclosed that I'm a professional worrier 😅

OP posts:
comedycentral · 31/05/2024 21:11

Unless top physical health is essential for the role, you'll likely be referred to their occupational health for assessment when you start, depending on the company.

Congratulations on your new job.

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