Wanting dp to be the least bit bloody interested...????

[WombFor1More]

In this pregnancy?? I'm so bloody angry with him.

I say various things to him and at the most I get "that's nice"

This morning for example I felt bubba move about for the first time. I said "ooh there's a little person moving around!"

His response "yeah?" Then he farted really loud and spent next 5mins talking about that!! Oh excuse me for thinking his baby was more important than an F'ing fart

So now I'm sitting here all hormonal and on the verge of tears and extremely peed off that he's just spoilt something I was really excited about

I agree with VictorianSqualor and other posters that his feelings might change once your DS arrives. My godfather actively resented his DW's pregnancies and was furious that she was PG but is an extremely dedicated and loving father!

Dicking you about while you're PG and hormonal isn't fair though. Do you have other people who can support you and take an interest?

Heated - he says he would be quite happy to not even be here at the birth He is supposed to be working in Germany the week before I am due and he still wants to go.

Lulu - I've no idea. I want him to be happy about his son, I want US to be happy together but the way I'm now feeling isn't going to allow that to happen, well not right now anyway. I suppose I just have to go on making out that all is ok and see what happens.

Starlight - He has felt the same all the way through but has been telling me what he thinks I want to hear, unless we have had an arguement when he reveals how he actually feels. Sometimes he says he is just scared but last night when I asked him to stop all the lies and telling me what I want him to say he said he doesn't want another child.

Rainy - I hope beyond hope you are all right in saying he will come around. But why should he be allowed to make me feel this way? He has so far managed to make me feel guilty for having this baby by not even mentioning it's existance, so I cannot do all the things a normal happy pregnant lady would normally do. I do have family around but not often and most of them are dealing with their own hectic lives and problems so not like I can rely on anyone else.