Asked my husband yesterday if we could make love on the evening which he said yes to.
He didn't really have any communication with me you know, chit chat, general conversations etc which is a huge part of intimacy for me.
The kids were upstairs gaming in the evening, I came up to bed early to read my book after a long day. He followed and still, no conversation but just stroking me and being overly touchy (knowing what he / we want). However. The kids were still awake, in the room next door. I said it was weird and not now.
This totally put me off and killed the mood and I said I'd changed my mind. He then went off on one and asked why would I ask for sex and then take it off the table.
He's now at work and not contacted me at all (always texts to say love you).
I get he's disappointed but surely this is ridiculous?