I have been with my partner for nearly two years, he’s never been the best at communication, he can be a bit nasty to me and make silly comments, for example we went out shopping and in front of the shop worker he said “ why are you buying that, you don’t need it as you don’t wash” I was so confused about where that had come from. I most certainly do wash, im
not just saying that. 😞he makes comments about other things, he once threw away a dinner because I didn’t cook it the way his mum does. Anyway, he had to go away on work, he couldn’t be in contact for three weeks but he when he got his SIM card he hardly spoke to me, he sent me a text telling me he missed me and called me once, he ignored my calls, he called me one more time. When he got home he sent me stupid Facebook and instagram videos. He text me the day after sent me some pics of his time away to which I really replied , “ nice memories” Like a puff of smoke he’s gone again. He’s done this to me so many times but never for this amount of time. He also took and expensive bag of mine with him. The last time he did this. I told him if he doesn’t again he will never hear from me again. Well he’s missing now for 8/9 days no communication, he’s alive as he’s on instagram and Facebook. Am I the being unreasonable for sticking to my guns and refusing to talk to him? I’m so hurt, he was the first person who I let into mine and my children’s lives after a very abusive past relationship and he’s ghosted me, he’s 34 years old!!!!! I’m trying to work out if he’s waiting for me to text him, I don’t want to text, not even about the bag. I’m so hurt at the moment. I washed his clothes, cooked for him, lent him money, drove him 6 hours round trip when his car broke down. He does this to me after everything he knows I’ve been through