Long story short . How do you stop hanging out with extended family member when there is kids involved. So our two daughters 6 and 4 love to play in our house, or a very rare outing in a soft play . I don't mind kids playing but myself I no longer want to be spending so much time and effort around this person. It's draining for me. I always feel this strange animosity around each other. I don't feel this relationship is genuine. I do think I should trust my gut feeling .
My issue is that I don't want to hurt kids feelings by cutting off them but how do I go on about this to not look rude or hurt anyone ?