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To hate that DH never plans

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HusbandIssues55 · 26/05/2024 00:33

I’m really low right now and need some guidance or just space to rant. My relationship with DH is not great. He works very long hours and we hardly see him, it’s bank holiday now and my numerous attempts to try and make plans on what to do have failed. I’m fed up of chasing him for weeks to discuss what we should do in bank holiday but he’s ignored me and now that I’ve made plans without him he wants to make plans! I’m suffering from depression at the moment so my judgement is clouded. We had a huge fight today as I decided to see my sister on Monday which he’s not happy about. He wants to talk about pls s now when I’ve made alternative plans that don’t include him.

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Doobeeedooo · 26/05/2024 00:40

Rant away. I’m not sure I can help you much though as I have similar frustrations!!! Do you have kids? Whys he being resentful you’ve made plans without him if he hasn’t talked about ideas? Are you in a respectful relationship?

GrumpyOldCrone · 26/05/2024 01:40

If he wants a say in the plan, he has to be willing to discuss plans at a reasonable point before the plan is executed. YANBU.

Toffifee1 · 26/05/2024 06:36

If someone (friends/DH/family..) won‘t commit to plans with me when i ask them (or after checking with their calender/work/spouse), i‘ll agree to the next opportunity/person who wants to spend time with me.
Your sister agreed to meet up with you, she made you a priority, sounds like your husband is angry because you were his default plan if nothing better came up and was surprised you weren‘t available anymore?

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