@Parttimeplay my goals 20 years ago were similar to yours, but Im heavily motivated by ‘making a difference’ (not being judgemental - we’re all wired differently and this just happens to be my main motivation) so I went to work in the public sector. What I’ve seen over the last 14 years is truly heartbreaking - services being broken down for ideological reasons, people being failed, staff facing real time pay cut after pay cut, leading to burnout and mass resignations.
needless to say I cannot even afford a 3 bed semi in a ‘grimy’ part of London and am raising my family in the equivalent of 1/5 of the space I had growing up.
sometimes I wish I had chosen to work in the private sector and to concentrate on earning well, because then I wouldn’t have to know how bad things really are for the majority, and perhaps I could buy myself out of the systems. Sadly, my experience looking after elderly relatives in the private care/ healthcare systems, and friends’ experiences with private schools makes me think those systems are broken too - perhaps without a robust alternative, the profit motivation of the private sector leads to a race to the bottom?
in any case, I think this lot have had their chance in govt and they have royally effed it all up - the economy, our political standing internationally, living standards, state support, etc etc. I cant wait for something to change.