I work with lots of men for long hours and have developed some good friendships in my team. Strictly workplace friendships - I don't see or communicate outside of work, but we get on well.
One particular male colleague is 20 years + (I'm early thirties, he's in his fifties) and we often have banter and I would say we have a good friendship.
Today, this particular colleague and I had to share a car journey for a site visit...and he asked me to go out on a date with him! I was genuinely shocked and told him that would not ever happen.
He is 1) in a long term relationship and 2) a much older man than me, with a son my age.
I feel so uncomfortable that he seems to think that was even a possibility and it's made me rethink all of my own behaviour around him. I've always been friendly - as I am to everyone - but this has made me feel very awkward around him and I'm going to be honest, this meant I avoided him for the rest of the day.
I can't help but feel he is a bit pervy and it's creeped me out. AIBU?