Apparently he has told DD tht he will get her one for her birthday. She has never showed much interest in playing it, but she says he has got one for himself - not that he can play!
I asked her to ask him if he was getting her lessons to go with it, thinking that would be part of the present.
Anyway, she told me today that "Daddy says he gives you money for me, so lessons have to come from that".
WTF! I already pay for gym club, swimming lessons (and will be adding private ones to bring her up to the standard of the rest of her group) and she wants to join Brownies when they have a place.
Now Im supposed to find the money for lessons that he wants her to have!
I know that if I challenge him over this, he'll just go on about me choosing everything she does. But surely if he wants her to do something and he puts the idea in her head, he ought to pay for it?
Im soooo pissed off!